How to Get a Small Business Loan

How to Get a Small Business Loan. 

Whether you’re planning to expand an existing business or just now getting one off the ground, a small business loan can give you the financial support you need. Not all businesses can get a small business loan, so you need to take special care when applying for one. Make sure your credit history is as strong as possible, and search for lenders. Lenders will want to see numerous financial documents, so gather them ahead of time. Although getting a small business loan takes a lot of work, it is possible.

Part 1 Improving Your Credit Profile.
1. Pull your personal credit score. Most lenders will look at your personal credit history, even when you apply for a business loan. For this reason, obtain your credit score and check whether it’s high enough to qualify for the best interest rates. Generally, you’ll need a score above 680. You can get your credit score in the following ways:
Check your credit card statement. Many credit card companies now give their customers their FICO score.
Buy your FICO score for $20 at myfico.com.
Use a free website, such as CreditKarma.com or Credit Sesame.com.
2. Obtain a copy of your personal credit report. Errors on your credit report can pull down your credit score. In the U.S., you can get a free copy of your credit report each year from the three major Credit Reporting Agencies (CRAs). Don’t contact the CRA’s individually. Instead, visit annualcreditreport.com or call 1-877-322-8228. All three credit reports will be sent to you.
3. Remove inaccurate information from your credit report. Highlight any errors and contact the CRA that has the wrong information. Common errors include accounts listed that don’t belong to you or accounts inaccurately listed as in default.
You can contact the CRA directly through its website. If the inaccurate information appears on more than one credit report, you only need to contact one CRA, which will alert the other two.
It can take up to 60 days to remove inaccurate information.
4. Improve your credit score. Paying down your balances is the fastest way to improve your credit score. Tackle high-interest debts first, such as credit card debts. Send every monthly payment on time and pay at least the minimum. You should see a slow but steady improvement in your credit score.
Avoid taking out a new credit card, which will temporarily hurt your score. Instead, you can ask for an increase in the credit limit on one or more cards.
Unfortunately, there’s no quick fix for improving your credit score, and you should avoid any company promising to improve your score fast. These companies are often scammers.
5. Build your business credit. Lenders will also look at your business credit profile. Start building your business credit history by obtaining a D-U-N-S number from Dun & Bradstreet. You can get it for free by registering at their website.
Your creditors should report your payment history to Dun & Bradstreet. If not, list them as trade references. Dun & Bradstreet will then follow up and collect payment information.
Your business credit report will contain information about court judgments or liens against your business. You can boost your business credit by paying off any liens and judgments.

Part 2 Identifying Loans and Potential Lenders.
1. Determine the type of loan you need. There are several types of business loans you can get. You should identify the type you need before talking to a lender. Consider the following options.
Line of credit. You can draw from a credit line whenever you’re short of cash. For example, you might need money to make payroll or pay a vendor. You then pay back what you drew on your credit line. A line of credit is a lot like a credit card.
Installment loan. You can get an installment loan to expand operations. You pay it back in equal monthly installments over one to seven years.
Equipment loan. You get a loan to buy equipment, and the lender takes a security interest in the equipment until the loan is paid back. If you default on your loan, the lender seizes the equipment.
2. Stop into banks. Some banks are hesitant to lend to small businesses, but you still should stop in and talk to a loan officer. Discuss your business and ask for the bank’s requirements. You should stop in at least a month before you intend to apply.
Visit banks you’ve done business with as well as banks with whom you have no prior relationship. However, local community banks are more likely to lend to a small business than a large national bank.
3. Check with credit unions. Credit unions have increased the number of business loans they make, so they are a good option for small business owners. You’ll need to become a member of the credit union before you can apply for a business loan, but setting up an account shouldn’t be too burdensome. Credit unions typically offer better rates and lower fees than traditional banks.
4. Research online lenders. Online lending has exploded over the past few years and is a good option if your credit isn’t perfect. You can find online lenders at different aggregator sites, such as LendingTree and Fundera.
There are many online scammers, so thoroughly research online lenders. Look up the business with the Better Business Bureau and Google the company to check for complaints. Only do business with an online lender that has a street address.
5. Research government-backed loans. In many jurisdictions, the government will guarantee loans. This means they agree to pay back a certain percentage of the loan if the borrower defaults. Because of this guarantee, you generally get more favorable interest rates and repayment terms.
In the U.S., the Small Business Administration (SBA) guarantees small business loans. It’s most popular loan program is the 7(a) program which guarantees up to $5 million in loans. 7(a) loans can be used to build a new business or expand an existing one.
Even though the SBA guarantees the loan, you still apply with a bank. Talk to the bank about whether it is experienced with SBA loans and ask if it is part of the SBA Preferred Lender Program (PLP).
6. Ask friends or family for a loan. The people who know you the best might be willing to loan your business money. Approach your friends and family in the same manner you would a bank. Provide them with a copy of your business plan and your financial documents.
You can agree to pay interest, which will show that you are serious about repaying the loan. In the U.S., the interest rate shouldn’t be higher than the maximum allowed in your state, but it should be at least the federal funds rate, which you can find at the IRS website.
Also draft a promissory note and sign it, which will make the loan official.

Part 3 Gathering Required Information.
1. Create a personal financial statement. Every owner who owns at least 20% of your business should create a personal financial statement. Financial statements contain information about your assets, such as cash, mutual funds, certificates of deposits, and real estate. They also identify all liabilities owed to lenders, creditors, and the government.
2. Pull together business financial documents. Lenders will want to see your business balance sheet, profit and loss statement, and cash flow statement. If you need help creating these documents, consult with an account.
Ideally, your financial statements should be audited by a certified public accountant. Ask another business owner if they would recommend their CPA, or contact your nearest accounting society to obtain a referral.
3. Collect other required information. Lenders want a complete picture of your business, so they will require plenty of paperwork. Gather this ahead of time so that the application process goes smoothly. Get the following.
Personal tax returns for the past three years.
Recent personal bank statements.
Business tax returns for the past three years.
Recent business bank statements.
Resumes for each owner and member of management.
Business leases.
Articles of Organization (if an LLC) or Incorporation (if a corporation).
Franchise agreement (if applicable).
4. Show you have the necessary down payment. Generally, you need a cash down payment of 20%. If you hope to borrow $100,000, then you should have $20,000 in cash. Make sure that you have bank records showing the necessary down payment.
5. Draft a business plan. Your business plan lays out where your business is headed in the next few years and how you plan to get there. Lenders want to see a solid business plan before they will make a loan. Your business plan should identify your target market, marketing plan, management, and financial projections.
Some lenders want your business plan to contain specific information. Stop into the bank before applying and ask about their specific requirements.
Business plans can be hard to write. In the U.S., you can get help at your nearest Small Business Development Center, which you can find at https://www.sba.gov/tools/local-assistance/sbdc.
6. Document any collateral. Some lenders won’t give you a loan unless you pledge assets as collateral. Collateral protects lenders since they can seize the assets if you default on your loan. Common forms of collateral include inventory, heavy equipment, accounts receivables, and your home.
You should document the location and condition of the collateral. If possible, hire an appraiser to value the collateral.

Part 4 Applying for Your Loan.
1. Fill out your application. Each lender’s application will be slightly different. However, most will ask your reasons for applying for the loan, as well as the identity of your management team. Also identify any suppliers you will be buying assets from.
Each lender will pull your credit report, which will ding your credit score. However, all credit pulls in a two-week window will count as a single pull, so plan accordingly.
2. Wait to hear back. You should hear back within two to four weeks. If you want, you can call once a week and ask for an update on your application status. The lender might need more documentation, so provide it as quickly as possible.
About 80% of applicants for small business loans are rejected, so don’t be surprised if you get turned down. Ask any lender who rejects you to explain why. For example, you might need to save a larger down payment or draft a better business plan.
If no lender will give you a loan, consider other forms of funding, such as getting a business credit card.
3. Review the loan terms. Any lender that approves you should provide a term sheet which contains the details of the loan—the loan period, the annual percentage rate, and fees. Make sure you are comfortable with the terms.
You probably will need to personally guarantee the loan. This means that if you stop making payments, the lender can come after your personal assets, such as your car or home.
4. Close on the loan. Sign the term sheet or commitment letter and return it to the lender. The lender will then schedule a closing, which usually happens 45-60 days later. If your loan is guaranteed by the SBA, you’ll work with the loan officer to gather the necessary documents to submit. At the closing, you will review and sign a variety of documents before receiving your loan proceeds.

FAQ.

Question : Where can I find investors for small business?
Answer : If you're in the U.S., contact your nearest Chamber of Commerce or Small Business Development Center. They might know of local investors who are interested in small businesses.
Question : Are there any charities the will help me start a business?
Answer : You should start looking into crowdfunding websites. If people like your product or service, they'll donate money. Sometimes you can give the donators your product/service at a discounted price as an incentive.

April 07, 2020

How to Build a Diversified Portfolio

How to Create a Profitable Property Portfolio.

You've been thinking about investing in property. Although investing in real estate can be an overwhelming thought for some people, it can also bring great rewards. You may want to consider investing as a way to create cash flow or build a nice nest egg. Becoming profitable in investing requires a certain degree of skill and know-how, but once you stick your toe in the water, you may become hooked.

Method 1 Planning and Researching.
1. Know why you’re buying. Before you buy an investment property, you need to consider your investment strategy. Put some thought into what type of investment interests you and meets your needs. Perhaps you would like to diversify your holdings besides stocks and bonds. Maybe you would just like to build your wealth or improve your cash flow. Whatever your reasons are for wanting to invest, it is good to be clear on them before you start. A few common reasons for investing in real estate include the following:
You want to increase your current income. Getting a monthly rent check, for example, can give your income a boost.
You're interested in capital gain — buying a property and later profiting from its sale.
You want to take advantage of the tax write-offs that come with real estate investments.
2. Learn about the various types of real estate investments. Ask yourself how much time you are willing to invest in managing the property, and whether you have the necessary skills to manage the property. Different types of investments have different risks and rewards, so it's important to consider which type of investment best meets your needs. Consider these investment choices:
Raw land investments. Raw land requires little management and has the potential for big appreciation if it's in an area that becomes attractive to developers. However, there is limited cash flow from this investment through leasing to farmers/ranchers short term, mineral royalties if included in purchase, or appreciation. Also, government restrictions on how the land may be used can impact its value.
Residential real estate investments. Fixing up a residence and "flipping" it is a popular type of investment. The profitability of this type of investment is dependent on the state of the local housing market; location is very important.
Commercial real estate investments. Investing in commercial real estate, such as an apartment building, office building, or retail building, can yield a steady flow of cash, since you'll be getting a regular rent check from your tenants. However, the property requires significant upkeep to make sure it's up to code. You also run the risk of getting bad tenants who damage the property or do not pay rent on time.
3. Decide whether to flip or hold the property. "Flipping" generally applies to residential properties that are purchased, improved, and sold for higher price. Most real estate requires long term holding, and is not conducive to short-term trading. When considering what type of investment to make, determine which situation works best for you.
Consider whether you need additional income now or in the future.
Review your short- and long-term financial goals and if bringing in income now makes sense for you.
Factor in your income tax bracket and how that could be adversely affected by bringing in more income.
Consider the real estate market and if it is rising or falling at this time.
Evaluate your financial situation and see if you have other income that you can tap into if your rental properties become vacant.
Think about your available time and capabilities to manage or improve properties. Using third parties for such services may decrease expected return.
4. Obtain statistics on the town in which you are considering investing. Check the local state government website about the area you are targeting to see how it compares to other locations. It is important to have as much information and knowledge as possible on property investing before you dive in.
Find out the local median income.
Research the population growth of the area.
See what the unemployment statistics are in the area.
Check to see if the community is continuing to grow.
Find out what the real estate taxes are compared to nearby towns.
See if there is a supply and demand of rentals in the area.
Check out the schools to see how good they are.
5. Research online or take a course. A lot of research can be done online, but you may also check your local directory and sign up for a reputable real estate investment course or seminar. Make sure you bring some paper and a pen so you can jot down notes as you listen to the experts speak.
6. Work with a local realtor, property investor, or developer who also invests in real estate. Someone who has been investing on his own will know the pitfalls from his own first hand experience. A realtor with substantial knowledge in investing can teach you as you go along and help make you feel more comfortable with the process. However, remember the money you are investing is yours, not the realtors, so trust your intuition.

Method 2 Pinpointing your Property Needs.
1. Decide on your location. When you are searching for your investment area, look for a place that has clear signs of growth and economic stability. If you aren’t familiar with the area, take a drive around the town or city and get to know it. Check to see if there is adequate shopping and amenities close by. If you like the area and what it has to offer, chances are your renters will too.
2. Pick the right property. See if the properties you are interested in have desirable features, like a great view or ample parking. If so, take that into consideration. There are other issues to consider when picking your property, as well.
If you're deciding between investing in a house or an apartment, keep in mind that houses seem to have a better capital growth rate and apartments tend to have a better rental yield.
Also, the quality of the neighborhood in which you buy will most likely influence the type of tenants you attract. For example, if you buy near a college, you may be renting to students. There is a possibility of vacancies in the summer when the students return home.
Make sure you find out what the property taxes are. Take into consideration that high property taxes may not be such a bad thing if the property is in an excellent area and suited for long-term tenants.
Check to see if the area has any criminal activity. Go to the local police department to learn about the specific area you are interested in. Things to ask about might include vandalism, gang activity or any recent serious crimes. You have a better chance of finding out the facts from the police department, than from the person selling you the property.
Make sure the property isn't in a natural disaster zone. The insurance on the property can get pricey if you are in a questionable area so it is worth checking into. Many property owners are underinsured for natural disasters which can lead to devastating property loss in the event of a major storm or earthquake.
3. Have your property inspected by a professional inspector. You want to make sure the property is in good shape and has up-to-date repairs. You are looking for a property that, with a few minor repairs, will attract tenants who are willing to pay higher rents. In addition, find a contractor who you trust to give you the right advice on any repairs that may be required, especially for older properties. There are some things that you can check yourself, however.
Check the drains to make sure there are no problems with flooding.
Open and close all the windows to make sure they are in working order.
Turn on all the faucets to make sure they are working.
Light a fire in the fireplace to see if it's working.
Flush the toilets to make sure they flush properly.
Open the electrical panel and make sure there are no loose wires.
Turn on the heat and air conditioning to see if they work.
Make sure there is no basement moisture as this can be a sign that there is a more serious problem.
Pull the carpet back to see if there are hardwood floors underneath.
4. Know your target tenant. If you're investing in commercial real estate, your choice of tenant should influence the type of property you buy and where you decide to buy it. For example, families with children will potentially be interested in different amenities than young, single people.
See if the property is near any schools.
Check to see if there are any parks in the neighborhood.
See if the shops and cafes are within walking distance.
Find out how close the transportation options are.

Method 3 Examining the Finances.
1. Check into your credit history. Make a plan to get your credit in better shape if necessary. Having a good credit score will help you secure a loan with better terms. If your credit is compromised, check your local listings for agencies or nonprofit organizations that can help you clean it up.
2. Decide how you will finance your property. There are several ways to begin investing in your property portfolio. You may consider selling an asset or refinancing a property to get the funds. If you're investing in raw land, it's common to get financing from the seller. You may also choose to take out bank loans to finance your property.
If you have the money, you can pay all cash, or you can put down a percentage and get a loan for the remaining amount.
There are different loan requirements depending on the bank and your financial history.
3. Visit with a mortgage broker or your bank. Find out how much money you can afford to borrow responsibly for your investment. The quickest way to find out if you can afford a loan is to ask the bank. If you get a "no" from your bank, then consider trying another one as each bank is different in their approach. You may also consider looking into a credit union or a smaller bank to get your loan through.
4. Find properties that produce positive cash flow. Unless the property has good cash flow, there is really no reason to consider purchasing it. Examine the financials on the property to make sure it is supplying a good source of income. The rent you receive from your tenants should be enough to pay all of your expenses, including your mortgage payment, utilities, property taxes, and insurance.
This excludes raw land investments, which generally yield no income unless leased for farming or another purpose.
5. Examine your investment expenses. A common mistake first time investors make is underestimating their expenses. Rental buildings are always needing touch ups and repairs. There are several areas of expense to factor in when considering your purchase. The amounts will vary depending on the property.
Water and sewer, Garbage, Utilities, Legal fees and accounting, Evictions, Vacancies, Scheduled maintenance.
6. Consider hiring a property manager. You may want to factor in a salary for a property manager if you don’t have the personality, skills, and availability to manage your own property. There are many benefits to hiring a property manager.
The manager advertises and rents for you and will show your property when vacancies arise.
The manager meets with prospective tenants and handles all of your lease agreements.
The manager collects the rent from the tenants and performs the move-in and move-out inspections.
The manager deals with all the tenants complaints.
The manager serves legal notices in the case of a dispute and starts the eviction process if necessary.
The manager usually has a list of reliable contractors that he or she has used before.

FAQ.

Question : How would I stay up to date on pertinent laws, regulations, and real estate terminology?
Answer : Become a member of an apartment owners association. If they are very large, they will send you magazines that have all the new problems that laws are causing for home owners and what they need to do to avoid these problems.

Tips.
Take your time doing the research. Rushing into a property purchase without significant knowledge may bring unwanted results.
If you are considering buying with a partner, make sure you have a proper partnership or joint venture agreement.
Don’t be afraid to walk away if the deal isn't working out.
Stay up to date with pertinent laws, regulations and real estate terminology.
Understand the risk you are taking when becoming a real estate investor. Success is not always guaranteed.
Find a mentor, lawyer or a supportive friend that has experience in investing to bounce your ideas off of.

April 01, 2020

How to Protect Your Finances when Your Spouse Files for Bankruptcy.

How to Protect Your Finances when Your Spouse Files for Bankruptcy.

When your spouse files for bankruptcy, the bankruptcy should not affect your credit score. However, you may still be affected in other ways. For example, you will still have to pay off joint debts. Also, the bankruptcy trustee can seize any property your spouse owns, even if you are a joint owner. Accordingly, you and your spouse should carefully consider which bankruptcy is best for the family or whether you should pursue a non-bankruptcy option.



Part 1 Identifying Joint and Separate Property.

1. Identify all property you and your spouse own. When your spouse files for bankruptcy, they will have to list all of their property on a schedule and report it. The trustee uses this information to determine the size of the bankruptcy estate. This information is important because the trustee may be able to force your spouse to sell property in order to pay their creditors. The less property your spouse owns, the better off they will be.

Go through your possessions and estimate how much the property is worth. Also figure out who owns it.

As a spouse, you want to be on the lookout for property you jointly own with your spouse. Unless this property is exempt, it goes into your spouse's estate, which means you might lose it depending on the bankruptcy your spouse files.

2. Check if you live in a community property state. The ownership of certain property may depend on the state where you are living. Some states are “community property” states, and this means that any property you or your spouse acquired during the marriage is owned equally by both of you.

For example, you might have bought a car. In a community property state, the car is generally considered the property of both you and your spouse—regardless of whether your spouse is on the title.

The following are community property states: Arizona, California, Idaho, Louisiana, Nevada, New Mexico, Texas, Washington, and Wisconsin. Community property laws also apply in some situations in Alaska.

Because community property laws differ, you should work closely with a lawyer in your state to identify all property that will be counted as part of the bankruptcy estate.

3. Determine ownership in a common law state. If you don't live in a community property state, then you live in a common law state. In common law states, the owner is generally the person whose name is on the title. If your name alone appears on the title, then the asset probably will not be included in the bankruptcy estate.

If both names are on the title, then you and your spouse both own half of the asset and the asset will have to be listed as part of the bankruptcy estate.

The trustee might be able to force a sale of the asset if they can convince the judge that the benefit of selling the asset outweighs any detriment you will face. However, the trustee will still have to pay you the full-value of your half of the asset. The trustee can only use the portion your bankrupt spouse owned to pay their creditors.

4. Check if you own your home in “tenancy by the entirety.” This is a form of ownership in which the asset is owned by the marriage. Many couples own their home in tenancy by the entirety. Depending on your state, assets owned in this manner are exempted from the bankruptcy estate.

5. Identify bankruptcy exemptions. You can exempt property from being counted as part of your spouse's estate. Each state has bankruptcy exemptions which you can use. The federal government also has a list of exemptions. In some states, you can choose between the state or federal exemptions, whereas other states will require that you use the state exemptions.

In Missouri, for example, you can exempt up to $15,000 in a home that you live in or up to $5,000 in a mobile home. You can also exempt up to $3,000 in a motor vehicle.

Say you and your spouse jointly own a car in Missouri. If the car is worth $16,000, then your spouse has $8,000 in the car. Only $3,000 is exempt. Accordingly, the trustee might want to sell the car and use the $5,000 to pay off creditors. If the trustee sells the car, they must pay the spouse who didn't file for bankruptcy $8,000.

In some states, you can double an exemption if you file a joint bankruptcy petition so long as you both own the property. For example, if the state allows you to exempt $3,000 in a car, then you can exempt $6,000 if you and your spouse own it together.

6. Avoid transferring property. You might think you can protect your assets by having your spouse transfer them before filing for bankruptcy. If you live in a common law state, you might think you can make the transfer into your name so that you hold title to all of the family property and your spouse holds only the debts individually. Unfortunately, this tactic won't work.

Instead, your spouse must report all transfers. If your spouse transferred the property during the two years before they filed for bankruptcy, then the trustee can get the property back.

Your spouse will also get in trouble if they try to hide the transfer. Everyone files a bankruptcy petition under penalty of perjury. If caught lying, your spouse could be prosecuted and have the entire bankruptcy cancelled.



Part 2 Handling Joint Debts.

1. Identify your joint debts. You and your spouse might have joint debts. This means that you both have agreed to be 100% responsible for the full debt. Accordingly, if your spouse files for bankruptcy, you are not relieved of your responsibility for the debt. Although your spouse will have their obligation discharged, your obligation will not be. You will still remain responsible for the entire amount. Joint debts can be formed in the following ways.

You and your spouse took out the debt together.

You cosigned on a loan for your spouse.

You live in a community property state and you or your spouse took out a debt during the marriage.

2. Continue to make payments on your joint debts. If you have a joint debt—say, for your car—then you must continue to make payments on it, even if you are the spouse who didn't file for bankruptcy. If you stop, then your credit score will take a hit because your missed payments will be reported to the credit reporting agencies.

3. Consider filing a joint bankruptcy petition. You have the option of filing for bankruptcy along with your spouse. By doing so, you can discharge joint debts.[12] After a discharge, neither you nor your spouse is responsible for the joint debt.

Of course, a bankruptcy stays on your credit report for several years, and neither you nor your spouse will probably be able to secure new credit in the near future.

Nevertheless, a joint bankruptcy can be an excellent option if you have high joint debts which you have no way of paying off in the future. A joint bankruptcy can free you and your spouse of these crushing joint debts.



Part 3 Choosing the Right Bankruptcy.

1. Identify the different types of bankruptcy. U.S. law provides many different types of bankruptcies, but the two most common for individuals are Chapter 7 and Chapter 13. You should analyze which is best for you, depending on your circumstances.

Chapter 7. This is called a “liquidation” bankruptcy. In a Chapter 7, your spouse can wipe out all of their debts. However, in order to get that benefit, they generally must sell non-exempt property and use the proceeds to pay their creditors.

Chapter 13. In a Chapter 13, the debtor gets to keep their property. Instead of selling it, they will pay back creditors for three to five years. At the end of the repayment period, any remaining unsecured debts (like credit cards) will be forgiven. Chapter 13 is a good option if you have a lot of non-exempt property that is jointly owned.

Joint bankruptcy petition. A joint bankruptcy petition may be the best option if you and your spouse have large joint debts. You can file both Chapter 7 and 13 jointly.

2. Meet with an attorney. Only a qualified bankruptcy attorney can analyze your situation and identify the best course of action. You should get a referral to a bankruptcy attorney by contacting your local or state bar association. Once you have a referral, call up the attorney and schedule a consultation. Ask how much the fee will be.

Your attorney can help you think through which bankruptcy to file—or whether a different alternative would be best.

3. Consider alternatives to bankruptcy. Your spouse should consider other options. These options might be better because they will impact your spouse's credit score less severely. Also, you don't jeopardize losing property. Common alternatives include.

Get a debt consolidation loan. Sometimes you can get a low-interest loan which you use to pay off all debts. You then have one payment to make.

Transfer debts to low interest credit cards. Many credit cards give 12-month grace periods for balance transfers. Interest doesn't accrue until the grace period ends.

Create a repayment plan with your creditors. They might be willing to work with you, especially if you mention that you are thinking of filing for bankruptcy. In bankruptcy, unsecured creditors rarely get paid back 100% of what they are owed. For this reason, they may be willing to reduce the interest rate or extend payments over a long period of time so that you don't file for bankruptcy.

Use a credit counselor. Credit counseling services can help you negotiate with creditors and then consolidate debt. These counselors also help you come up with repayment plans you can afford.



Question : If my wife files bankruptcy, what happens to our jointly-owned house? How does this affect my loan on the house?

Answer : In a bankruptcy, all your debts are listed against all your assets. If your wife does not have sufficient assets to pay for her debts, then her half of the house can be seized. It can either be transferred as an asset to a creditor, or (forcibly) liquidated. But if the bank sells your house, you have to get your share. I.e. only her share can be seized. For a detailed calculation, contact an accountant.

February 25, 2020

How to Prevent Arguments About Finances

How to Prevent Arguments About Finances.

Money and finances are one of the most common sources of conflict for couples. Money problems can stem from not being open about your finances and having differing views of how money should be spent. To help prevent fights about finances, discuss each other’s views about money, come to a compromise that respects both your values, communicate about your finances openly, and set goals to help keep your finances in order.



Method 1 Discussing Your Views About Money.

1. Talk about your view on money. One of the money problems that arises between couples is due to their differing position on money. Some people are spenders and others are savers. These two mindsets can strongly clash. To help get past this problem, you should talk about these differences.

During this discussion, talk about whether you are a saver or spender.

Having open communication about your ideas and feelings on money can help you start to solve or eliminate problems.

For example, you may say, "I believe that money is hard-earned and should be enjoyed." Alternately, you may say, "Saving money is important to me. We work too hard for it to spend it often."

2. Discuss what money means to you. Often, the arguments about finances aren’t about money specifically, but about what money means to the people in the relationship. To help prevent any financial arguments, you and your partner should explain to each other what money means to you and what it signifies. This can help you understand each other.

For example, you may think that saving money means safety and security. You may think that saving money or spending it can show love and affection. Saving money may make you feel in control and like you have power.

You may feel that you deserve to spend your hard earned money on yourself, or you may feel that you deserve to save your hard earned money for future plans.

Determine if you or your partner use money as a way to measure success, status, or keep score with others.

Make sure to discuss any fears you have about money and the way that your family approached money growing up.

For example, you may say, "Saving money makes me feel safe. When we were growing up, we had no money, so having a savings account helps me feel like I'm taking care of my family."

3. Acknowledge your differences about money with an open mind. After you have discussed what money means to both of you, you should use the opportunity to understand each other’s position and ideas about money. You should not point fingers or try to make one of your right and wrong. There is nothing wrong with having different values about money. You have to work towards understanding, accepting, and compromising.

For example, work on understanding why your partner feels that spending money is something they have earned and deserved. Try to see how saving money makes your partner feel in control and safe.

Both you and your partner are two different people, which means you are not going to have the same opinions about everything. Communicating about your ideas of money can help prevent and avoid misunderstandings.

If your partner has illogical, irresponsible, or contradictory ideas about money, that is a separate issue. You want to accept different ideas about money, yet help your partner work through illogical money ideas that may harm your family.

Try saying, "I understand that you want to save money though I like to treat myself for my hard work. Can you explain to me why saving money is so important to you? I will explain to you why I think we deserve to spend some of our money."

4. Compromise with both of your sets of values. After you have figured out what each of you feels about money, you can then work on a compromise. Compromise means you both stay positive as you find a way to negotiate both of your values. Find some common ground that benefits you both. You should work on finding ways for both of your to compromise equally so one person isn’t giving up more than the other.

For example, you may come to a compromise where you set aside money each month to spend on yourself while your partner sets aside a similar amount to save. You both can come to an agreement on what things are considered special splurge purchases, and decide what you want to save money on to purchase or invest in in the future.

5. Take a break and come back to the discussion. If you and your partner are discussing money and start arguing or yelling, stop the conversation and go do something else. Stepping away for a moment will help you and your spouse have time to calm down and think more logically about what has been said.

You and your partner will not always agree about money. However, it is crucial that you learn how to compromise so you can meet everyone’s needs and address each other’s concerns.



Method 2 Communicating Effectively About Finances,

1. Be open about your finances. One way to help prevent arguments about money is the be open about your finances with your partner. This helps each of you be on the same page, so you won’t be keeping secrets about money or lying about money. These behaviors can cause problems and arguments.

When your relationship gets to the point where you start sharing bills and financial responsibilities, you should be open about all of your finances. This includes your debt, income, and financial obligations.

Tell your partner, "I want to share my finances with you. I have some student loan debt, a car payment, and two credit cards."

2. Keep your partner in the loop. You should share vital financial information with your partner so that you both stay informed of each other’s financial situation. This includes any changes to your income, tax returns, and credit reports. This helps maintain honesty and communication between you, and you can avoid potential problems if you keep something from your partner.

This often happens at the beginning of a partnership, when you let your partner know your financial situation. However, you should continue doing this throughout the relationship, especially if things change significantly.

For example, you may say, "My credit report has changed recently due to my recent bill payments. I'd like to go over what changed the credit report with you."

Another way to prevent arguments is to agree to text or call if you are thinking of purchasing something over an agreed upon spending limit, such as $100. If you or your partner is out shopping and finds something above the agreed upon limit, then sending a quick text or making a quick phone call may prevent an argument later on.

3. Establish weekly money talks. Another way to help prevent fights about money is to discuss any minor problems before they can turn into something worse. Getting together with your partner once every week or two to discuss the budget and any minor problems can help keep the lines of communication open and help prevent fights.

For example, you may get together and discuss how one of you spent more on groceries than was budgeted, or another minor financial problem. Addressing the problems early can help prevent the small things from turning into major problems.

You may say things like, "We went over the budget on groceries, but by cutting a few corners, we can adhere to it next month."

4. Talk about how you will approach helping out family. Many people help out family members financially. However, this can cause a lot of problems and arguments. To help prevent this, talk about what you and your partner want to do about helping out family members so you have a procedure in place.

For example, you may decide to help out a family member up to a certain dollar amount or a certain number of times each year. You may decide that you want to help out certain family members but not others. Discuss these issues with your partner and come up with a solution that you both can handle.

You may say, "I understand that your parents struggle, but we can only afford to help them for this set amount of money three times each year."



Method 3 Setting Financial Goals.

1. Create a budget. Budgets can help prevent a lot of arguments about money. Budgets create a solid plan for your money so there won’t be any questions or confusion about where the money goes and when. Budgets give you and your partner a guide to help stay on track where money is concerned.

If one partner has trouble adhering to the budget, you can look at the numbers and find areas that need improvement or adjustment.

Make sure to budget in money for extra purchases, such as an impulse buy or going out to dinner.

Include each of your money interests in the budget. If you like to spend money but your partner likes to save, budget those things in each month.

If budget has a negative connotation, consider calling it a “spending plan” instead of budget.

2. Share financial tasks. To help keep the financial responsibilities even and a joint effort, come up with a way share tasks and assign a duty to each person. This helps take all the pressure off one person and lets you work together to manage your finances.

For example, you may pay the bills while your partner makes and maintains the budget. You may focus on the savings account while your partner invests money.

3. Come up with long term goals. Figure out what your long term goals are for your money. Do you want to invest? Are you saving for a new car or house? Are there kids in the future? Do you want to take vacations? Each of these future plans are important. You should discuss what you and your partner want in the future and come up with a way to approach it.

Most of these purchases require pre-planning and saving. Prioritize what you want to save your money for.

4. Approach finances as a team. To help keep your finances running smoothly and eliminate any potential conflicts, work on your finances as a team. Even though one person may be in charge of the budget or paying the bills, you should talk about these ideas and sit down once a month to discuss the month’s finances.

You may decide to pay bills together and do the budget together instead of assigning the task. You may also switch back and forth and do a different financial task each month.

5. Consider having separate accounts. If finances and spending habits are a frequent source of frustration in your relationship, then you and your partner might consider setting up separate bank accounts and just maintain a joint account for your shared bills and savings. This may help to prevent arguments about finances if you each have a set amount of money to spend on whatever you want each month.

6. Seek professional help. If you and your partner fight too often about finances, you can seek professional help. You may want to visit a therapist who specializes in resolving conflicts in relationships. This can help you get past any barriers and help you learn how to compromise.

You may also want to visit a financial planner. Financial planners can help you figure out how to budget and compromise on financial issues.

February 25, 2020

how to protect your finances when your spouse files for bankruptcy

How to Protect Your Finances when Your Spouse Files for Bankruptcy.

When your spouse files for bankruptcy, the bankruptcy should not affect your credit score. However, you may still be affected in other ways. For example, you will still have to pay off joint debts. Also, the bankruptcy trustee can seize any property your spouse owns, even if you are a joint owner. Accordingly, you and your spouse should carefully consider which bankruptcy is best for the family or whether you should pursue a non-bankruptcy option.



Part 1 Identifying Joint and Separate Property.

1. Identify all property you and your spouse own. When your spouse files for bankruptcy, they will have to list all of their property on a schedule and report it. The trustee uses this information to determine the size of the bankruptcy estate. This information is important because the trustee may be able to force your spouse to sell property in order to pay their creditors. The less property your spouse owns, the better off they will be.

Go through your possessions and estimate how much the property is worth. Also figure out who owns it.

As a spouse, you want to be on the lookout for property you jointly own with your spouse. Unless this property is exempt, it goes into your spouse's estate, which means you might lose it depending on the bankruptcy your spouse files.

2. Check if you live in a community property state. The ownership of certain property may depend on the state where you are living. Some states are “community property” states, and this means that any property you or your spouse acquired during the marriage is owned equally by both of you.

For example, you might have bought a car. In a community property state, the car is generally considered the property of both you and your spouse—regardless of whether your spouse is on the title.

The following are community property states: Arizona, California, Idaho, Louisiana, Nevada, New Mexico, Texas, Washington, and Wisconsin. Community property laws also apply in some situations in Alaska.

Because community property laws differ, you should work closely with a lawyer in your state to identify all property that will be counted as part of the bankruptcy estate.

3. Determine ownership in a common law state. If you don't live in a community property state, then you live in a common law state. In common law states, the owner is generally the person whose name is on the title. If your name alone appears on the title, then the asset probably will not be included in the bankruptcy estate.

If both names are on the title, then you and your spouse both own half of the asset and the asset will have to be listed as part of the bankruptcy estate.

The trustee might be able to force a sale of the asset if they can convince the judge that the benefit of selling the asset outweighs any detriment you will face. However, the trustee will still have to pay you the full-value of your half of the asset. The trustee can only use the portion your bankrupt spouse owned to pay their creditors.

4. Check if you own your home in “tenancy by the entirety.” This is a form of ownership in which the asset is owned by the marriage. Many couples own their home in tenancy by the entirety. Depending on your state, assets owned in this manner are exempted from the bankruptcy estate.

5. Identify bankruptcy exemptions. You can exempt property from being counted as part of your spouse's estate. Each state has bankruptcy exemptions which you can use. The federal government also has a list of exemptions. In some states, you can choose between the state or federal exemptions, whereas other states will require that you use the state exemptions.

In Missouri, for example, you can exempt up to $15,000 in a home that you live in or up to $5,000 in a mobile home. You can also exempt up to $3,000 in a motor vehicle.

Say you and your spouse jointly own a car in Missouri. If the car is worth $16,000, then your spouse has $8,000 in the car. Only $3,000 is exempt. Accordingly, the trustee might want to sell the car and use the $5,000 to pay off creditors. If the trustee sells the car, they must pay the spouse who didn't file for bankruptcy $8,000.

In some states, you can double an exemption if you file a joint bankruptcy petition so long as you both own the property. For example, if the state allows you to exempt $3,000 in a car, then you can exempt $6,000 if you and your spouse own it together.

6. Avoid transferring property. You might think you can protect your assets by having your spouse transfer them before filing for bankruptcy. If you live in a common law state, you might think you can make the transfer into your name so that you hold title to all of the family property and your spouse holds only the debts individually. Unfortunately, this tactic won't work.

Instead, your spouse must report all transfers. If your spouse transferred the property during the two years before they filed for bankruptcy, then the trustee can get the property back.

Your spouse will also get in trouble if they try to hide the transfer. Everyone files a bankruptcy petition under penalty of perjury. If caught lying, your spouse could be prosecuted and have the entire bankruptcy cancelled.



Part 2 Handling Joint Debts.

1. Identify your joint debts. You and your spouse might have joint debts. This means that you both have agreed to be 100% responsible for the full debt. Accordingly, if your spouse files for bankruptcy, you are not relieved of your responsibility for the debt. Although your spouse will have their obligation discharged, your obligation will not be. You will still remain responsible for the entire amount. Joint debts can be formed in the following ways.

You and your spouse took out the debt together.

You cosigned on a loan for your spouse.

You live in a community property state and you or your spouse took out a debt during the marriage.

2. Continue to make payments on your joint debts. If you have a joint debt—say, for your car—then you must continue to make payments on it, even if you are the spouse who didn't file for bankruptcy. If you stop, then your credit score will take a hit because your missed payments will be reported to the credit reporting agencies.

3. Consider filing a joint bankruptcy petition. You have the option of filing for bankruptcy along with your spouse. By doing so, you can discharge joint debts.[12] After a discharge, neither you nor your spouse is responsible for the joint debt.

Of course, a bankruptcy stays on your credit report for several years, and neither you nor your spouse will probably be able to secure new credit in the near future.

Nevertheless, a joint bankruptcy can be an excellent option if you have high joint debts which you have no way of paying off in the future. A joint bankruptcy can free you and your spouse of these crushing joint debts.



Part 3 Choosing the Right Bankruptcy.

1. Identify the different types of bankruptcy. U.S. law provides many different types of bankruptcies, but the two most common for individuals are Chapter 7 and Chapter 13. You should analyze which is best for you, depending on your circumstances.

Chapter 7. This is called a “liquidation” bankruptcy. In a Chapter 7, your spouse can wipe out all of their debts. However, in order to get that benefit, they generally must sell non-exempt property and use the proceeds to pay their creditors.

Chapter 13. In a Chapter 13, the debtor gets to keep their property. Instead of selling it, they will pay back creditors for three to five years. At the end of the repayment period, any remaining unsecured debts (like credit cards) will be forgiven. Chapter 13 is a good option if you have a lot of non-exempt property that is jointly owned.

Joint bankruptcy petition. A joint bankruptcy petition may be the best option if you and your spouse have large joint debts. You can file both Chapter 7 and 13 jointly.

2. Meet with an attorney. Only a qualified bankruptcy attorney can analyze your situation and identify the best course of action. You should get a referral to a bankruptcy attorney by contacting your local or state bar association. Once you have a referral, call up the attorney and schedule a consultation. Ask how much the fee will be.

Your attorney can help you think through which bankruptcy to file—or whether a different alternative would be best.

3. Consider alternatives to bankruptcy. Your spouse should consider other options. These options might be better because they will impact your spouse's credit score less severely. Also, you don't jeopardize losing property. Common alternatives include.

Get a debt consolidation loan. Sometimes you can get a low-interest loan which you use to pay off all debts. You then have one payment to make.

Transfer debts to low interest credit cards. Many credit cards give 12-month grace periods for balance transfers. Interest doesn't accrue until the grace period ends.

Create a repayment plan with your creditors. They might be willing to work with you, especially if you mention that you are thinking of filing for bankruptcy. In bankruptcy, unsecured creditors rarely get paid back 100% of what they are owed. For this reason, they may be willing to reduce the interest rate or extend payments over a long period of time so that you don't file for bankruptcy.

Use a credit counselor. Credit counseling services can help you negotiate with creditors and then consolidate debt. These counselors also help you come up with repayment plans you can afford.



Question : If my wife files bankruptcy, what happens to our jointly-owned house? How does this affect my loan on the house?

Answer : In a bankruptcy, all your debts are listed against all your assets. If your wife does not have sufficient assets to pay for her debts, then her half of the house can be seized. It can either be transferred as an asset to a creditor, or (forcibly) liquidated. But if the bank sells your house, you have to get your share. I.e. only her share can be seized. For a detailed calculation, contact an accountant.

February 17, 2020

how to prevent arguments about finances

How to Prevent Arguments About Finances.

Money and finances are one of the most common sources of conflict for couples. Money problems can stem from not being open about your finances and having differing views of how money should be spent. To help prevent fights about finances, discuss each other’s views about money, come to a compromise that respects both your values, communicate about your finances openly, and set goals to help keep your finances in order.



Method 1 Discussing Your Views About Money.

1. Talk about your view on money. One of the money problems that arises between couples is due to their differing position on money. Some people are spenders and others are savers. These two mindsets can strongly clash. To help get past this problem, you should talk about these differences.

During this discussion, talk about whether you are a saver or spender.

Having open communication about your ideas and feelings on money can help you start to solve or eliminate problems.

For example, you may say, "I believe that money is hard-earned and should be enjoyed." Alternately, you may say, "Saving money is important to me. We work too hard for it to spend it often."

2. Discuss what money means to you. Often, the arguments about finances aren’t about money specifically, but about what money means to the people in the relationship. To help prevent any financial arguments, you and your partner should explain to each other what money means to you and what it signifies. This can help you understand each other.

For example, you may think that saving money means safety and security. You may think that saving money or spending it can show love and affection. Saving money may make you feel in control and like you have power.

You may feel that you deserve to spend your hard earned money on yourself, or you may feel that you deserve to save your hard earned money for future plans.

Determine if you or your partner use money as a way to measure success, status, or keep score with others.

Make sure to discuss any fears you have about money and the way that your family approached money growing up.

For example, you may say, "Saving money makes me feel safe. When we were growing up, we had no money, so having a savings account helps me feel like I'm taking care of my family."

3. Acknowledge your differences about money with an open mind. After you have discussed what money means to both of you, you should use the opportunity to understand each other’s position and ideas about money. You should not point fingers or try to make one of your right and wrong. There is nothing wrong with having different values about money. You have to work towards understanding, accepting, and compromising.

For example, work on understanding why your partner feels that spending money is something they have earned and deserved. Try to see how saving money makes your partner feel in control and safe.

Both you and your partner are two different people, which means you are not going to have the same opinions about everything. Communicating about your ideas of money can help prevent and avoid misunderstandings.

If your partner has illogical, irresponsible, or contradictory ideas about money, that is a separate issue. You want to accept different ideas about money, yet help your partner work through illogical money ideas that may harm your family.

Try saying, "I understand that you want to save money though I like to treat myself for my hard work. Can you explain to me why saving money is so important to you? I will explain to you why I think we deserve to spend some of our money."

4. Compromise with both of your sets of values. After you have figured out what each of you feels about money, you can then work on a compromise. Compromise means you both stay positive as you find a way to negotiate both of your values. Find some common ground that benefits you both. You should work on finding ways for both of your to compromise equally so one person isn’t giving up more than the other.

For example, you may come to a compromise where you set aside money each month to spend on yourself while your partner sets aside a similar amount to save. You both can come to an agreement on what things are considered special splurge purchases, and decide what you want to save money on to purchase or invest in in the future.

5. Take a break and come back to the discussion. If you and your partner are discussing money and start arguing or yelling, stop the conversation and go do something else. Stepping away for a moment will help you and your spouse have time to calm down and think more logically about what has been said.

You and your partner will not always agree about money. However, it is crucial that you learn how to compromise so you can meet everyone’s needs and address each other’s concerns.



Method 2 Communicating Effectively About Finances,

1. Be open about your finances. One way to help prevent arguments about money is the be open about your finances with your partner. This helps each of you be on the same page, so you won’t be keeping secrets about money or lying about money. These behaviors can cause problems and arguments.

When your relationship gets to the point where you start sharing bills and financial responsibilities, you should be open about all of your finances. This includes your debt, income, and financial obligations.

Tell your partner, "I want to share my finances with you. I have some student loan debt, a car payment, and two credit cards."

2. Keep your partner in the loop. You should share vital financial information with your partner so that you both stay informed of each other’s financial situation. This includes any changes to your income, tax returns, and credit reports. This helps maintain honesty and communication between you, and you can avoid potential problems if you keep something from your partner.

This often happens at the beginning of a partnership, when you let your partner know your financial situation. However, you should continue doing this throughout the relationship, especially if things change significantly.

For example, you may say, "My credit report has changed recently due to my recent bill payments. I'd like to go over what changed the credit report with you."

Another way to prevent arguments is to agree to text or call if you are thinking of purchasing something over an agreed upon spending limit, such as $100. If you or your partner is out shopping and finds something above the agreed upon limit, then sending a quick text or making a quick phone call may prevent an argument later on.

3. Establish weekly money talks. Another way to help prevent fights about money is to discuss any minor problems before they can turn into something worse. Getting together with your partner once every week or two to discuss the budget and any minor problems can help keep the lines of communication open and help prevent fights.

For example, you may get together and discuss how one of you spent more on groceries than was budgeted, or another minor financial problem. Addressing the problems early can help prevent the small things from turning into major problems.

You may say things like, "We went over the budget on groceries, but by cutting a few corners, we can adhere to it next month."

4. Talk about how you will approach helping out family. Many people help out family members financially. However, this can cause a lot of problems and arguments. To help prevent this, talk about what you and your partner want to do about helping out family members so you have a procedure in place.

For example, you may decide to help out a family member up to a certain dollar amount or a certain number of times each year. You may decide that you want to help out certain family members but not others. Discuss these issues with your partner and come up with a solution that you both can handle.

You may say, "I understand that your parents struggle, but we can only afford to help them for this set amount of money three times each year."



Method 3 Setting Financial Goals.

1. Create a budget. Budgets can help prevent a lot of arguments about money. Budgets create a solid plan for your money so there won’t be any questions or confusion about where the money goes and when. Budgets give you and your partner a guide to help stay on track where money is concerned.

If one partner has trouble adhering to the budget, you can look at the numbers and find areas that need improvement or adjustment.

Make sure to budget in money for extra purchases, such as an impulse buy or going out to dinner.

Include each of your money interests in the budget. If you like to spend money but your partner likes to save, budget those things in each month.

If budget has a negative connotation, consider calling it a “spending plan” instead of budget.

2. Share financial tasks. To help keep the financial responsibilities even and a joint effort, come up with a way share tasks and assign a duty to each person. This helps take all the pressure off one person and lets you work together to manage your finances.

For example, you may pay the bills while your partner makes and maintains the budget. You may focus on the savings account while your partner invests money.

3. Come up with long term goals. Figure out what your long term goals are for your money. Do you want to invest? Are you saving for a new car or house? Are there kids in the future? Do you want to take vacations? Each of these future plans are important. You should discuss what you and your partner want in the future and come up with a way to approach it.

Most of these purchases require pre-planning and saving. Prioritize what you want to save your money for.

4. Approach finances as a team. To help keep your finances running smoothly and eliminate any potential conflicts, work on your finances as a team. Even though one person may be in charge of the budget or paying the bills, you should talk about these ideas and sit down once a month to discuss the month’s finances.

You may decide to pay bills together and do the budget together instead of assigning the task. You may also switch back and forth and do a different financial task each month.

5. Consider having separate accounts. If finances and spending habits are a frequent source of frustration in your relationship, then you and your partner might consider setting up separate bank accounts and just maintain a joint account for your shared bills and savings. This may help to prevent arguments about finances if you each have a set amount of money to spend on whatever you want each month.

6. Seek professional help. If you and your partner fight too often about finances, you can seek professional help. You may want to visit a therapist who specializes in resolving conflicts in relationships. This can help you get past any barriers and help you learn how to compromise.

You may also want to visit a financial planner. Financial planners can help you figure out how to budget and compromise on financial issues.

February 11, 2020

How to Discuss Finances Together in a Marriage

How to Discuss Finances Together in a Marriage.

Finances are a hot topic when it comes to all relationships, especially marriages. Saying “I do” means more than just sharing a life together, it also means sharing financial responsibility for that life. Whether good or bad, each spouse needs to be open and honest about his or her current financial standing. What’s more, the couple must work together to decide on important financial decisions for the future. Learn the basics for discussing money with your spouse.



Part 1 Communicating Effectively

1. Broach the subject casually with your spouse. The time to start talking about merging your finances is before the wedding, but at least 40% of couples avoid doing so.

Start the conversation with your action items first. This could mean starting off by talking to your spouse about your desire to look at your own credit score as you prepare to buy a house and suggest that he or she does the same. Say something like “Have you checked your credit report lately? I’ve been wanting to get a good picture of my financial standing. Maybe we can do it together?”

Things like credit scores for both of you may change how you approach buying a home, for example. You may find if one of you has a higher score than the other, it may be better to buy without both of you on the mortgage. However, things line up, remember you are on the same “team”.

2. Gather data to support your decisions. Print your credit reports and any supporting documentation, such as account balances and credit card debt. Financial choices need to be based on numbers not emotion. Make sure you both have a clear idea of what debts came into the union and how you can work to pay those down.

Early on you are doing this to get on the same page about your individual financial pictures. However, in the future, it may be nice to take time each month to sit down together and look over the numbers. Viewing credit card statements and account balances can be a way to keep you accountable as far as goals and also open the floor for an ongoing discussion with your spouse.

3. Be candid about any bad habits. Before you get started, you must be forthright with your spouse about any habits you happen to have that are not apparent on your credit reports.

An example of a bad habit would include not taking the time to write down purchases made on your debit card so you can balance your check book. When you were single, this may have not seemed like a huge deal, but with two people sharing accounts it can quickly become a problem.

Other bad habits you need to bring to your spouse would include past blemishes on your credit like having too many credit cards open, being in default on student loans or having bills in collection. All of these issues can impact credit, but they can also be addressed and resolved.

4. Refrain from pointing the finger. Placing blame and arguing over money will not make any issues better. If you ask your spouse to be honest about credit challenges and then start the blame game you will probably not get that same level of honesty in the future.

5. Listen to understand, not to reply. This means looking at your spouse as he or she is speaking, listening carefully to fully get his or her point of view, and then taking that one step further by confirming what you have heard.

When you sit down to have a tough conversation with your spouse, you will break the trust if you are not willing to listen. Don’t ask the tough questions unless you are ready to handle any answer.

The exchange of information should be fair and equal.



Part 2 Setting Ground Rules.

1. Decide if you will merge all the money or maintain separate accounts. Even after getting married there are no laws that say you have to merge all your accounts. Having separate accounts does not mean neither of you knows what the other is doing. Both partners should have access to the records of the other since you are sharing a household.

Depending on the credit scores for both spouses, it may make more sense to keep separate accounts especially if you want to buy a home soon. One spouse alone on a mortgage is going to have a higher chance of getting the loan than two people with mixed credit scores.

2. Determine who will be the primary overseer of your money. This will include how you make decisions about both small and large purchases. The person who is most organized and financially savvy may be the best choice for managing the finances. However, both partners should take on the responsibility in some way. So, choose duties according to your individual strengths.

For example, one of you may be better at saving, so you will be in charge of building an emergency fund and overseeing retirement savings. The other may be in charge of paying monthly bills and balancing the checkbook. Decide based on what’s best for you and your spouse.

3. Agree about which of you will handle certain expenses. You will need to know who is writing the check for rent, paying the electric bill and other household bills. You do not want to get into a situation where both of you thought the other paid the electric bill and you learn that it wasn’t paid when the lights are turned off. You also don’t want to pay bills twice and be short money.

Being upfront about how much both of you make and how you will divide the bills will make things much easier. Some families divide everything I half while others just pool their money regardless of who makes what.

The use of credit cards versus cash should also be explored as one partner may be used to always using a card and then paying it off once a month while the other only uses cash. This needs to be talked about.

4. Don’t make big purchases without your spouse’s blessing. Regardless of who makes more money, a big ticket item should be bought together. This is a good time to set boundaries about how much either of you can spend without talking to your spouse. This can be as simple as saying you have a spending limit of $100 without checking in since that is a low amount in your budget and won’t overdraw the account.



Part 3 Overcoming Money Troubles.

1. Build a household budget. This budget should include all the household bills, ongoing needs and bills that were outstanding from before you got married. The budget needs to be realistic and something you both commit to. Consider these tips:

Tally up every single monthly expense and plan for them in advance.

Include separate and joint goals.

Include long-term goals like saving for a down payment on a house.

Negotiate with ongoing bills to cut down interest rates or get rid of fees.

Automate whatever you can so that you don’t miss paying bills and acquire late fees.

Go back and revise your budget as needed.

2. Start building an emergency fund. If you didn’t already have an emergency fund before getting married, now is the time to build one. An emergency fund acts as a cushion in times when unexpected expenses pop up or one of you is out of work.

How big your emergency account is will depend on you and your spouse. Many families tuck away enough money for at least 3 to 6 months of expenses. This provides greater security over the long haul.

This savings account would be for true emergencies only, not impulse buys. Take the time to set boundaries as to what qualifies as an emergency.

Some households use a credit card for emergencies like car repairs. Make sure you both agree if this is a good use of your credit cards and leave the available balance for such an emergency. If either of you has problems with managing credit cards, this may not be the best option for your household.

3. Know your debt situation and decide on a strategy to pay it off.[13] Both of you should have a very clear idea of the other person’s debt as well as your own. Don’t fall prey to the idea that it’s your spouse’s problem—it’s not. Both of your debt is usually considered during major purchases, so working together to shrink each person’s debt is ideal.

It can also be helpful to get financial advising or attend a debt reduction course for couples. If you have a significant amount of debt—or have no idea where to start to pay it down—it may be practical to involve a professional who can assist you.

4. Plan for your retirements. Talk to your spouse and come up with a plan that suits both of you for retirement and start saving. Keep in mind, that men and women often have varying opinions when it comes to retirement, so be willing to compromise and consider your spouse’s perspective.

Include payments to 401K and other investments as a part of your budget. Part of this process also includes changing the beneficiaries for each account now that you are married.

If you don’t already, you also need to draw up life insurance policies to secure your spouse and your family in case of a tragedy.



Question : If we get a divorce, will my wife get 50% of my 401K too?

Answer : Honestly, this depends on the state and the county where you are getting divorced. Different locations have different rules of division in a divorce. Some states are equitable division, meaning you split 50/50 while others are not.



Warnings.

Money troubles have ended more than a few marriages. If you are both responsible, open and honest about money, it will make for a stronger marriage.

Be mindful that some people are sensitive about discussing money. To some, money means power and control and these are very volatile subjects. Handle with care.

It can be a difficult and uncomfortable transition going from being a single person in total control of your finances to being part of a couple. If your partner is resistant, give him or her time. If you can show them that you are interested in working as a team with no judgments, your spouse will eventually come around.

February 10, 2020

how to discuss finances together in a marriage

How to Discuss Finances Together in a Marriage.

Finances are a hot topic when it comes to all relationships, especially marriages. Saying “I do” means more than just sharing a life together, it also means sharing financial responsibility for that life. Whether good or bad, each spouse needs to be open and honest about his or her current financial standing. What’s more, the couple must work together to decide on important financial decisions for the future. Learn the basics for discussing money with your spouse.



Part 1 Communicating Effectively

1. Broach the subject casually with your spouse. The time to start talking about merging your finances is before the wedding, but at least 40% of couples avoid doing so.

Start the conversation with your action items first. This could mean starting off by talking to your spouse about your desire to look at your own credit score as you prepare to buy a house and suggest that he or she does the same. Say something like “Have you checked your credit report lately? I’ve been wanting to get a good picture of my financial standing. Maybe we can do it together?”

Things like credit scores for both of you may change how you approach buying a home, for example. You may find if one of you has a higher score than the other, it may be better to buy without both of you on the mortgage. However, things line up, remember you are on the same “team”.

2. Gather data to support your decisions. Print your credit reports and any supporting documentation, such as account balances and credit card debt. Financial choices need to be based on numbers not emotion. Make sure you both have a clear idea of what debts came into the union and how you can work to pay those down.

Early on you are doing this to get on the same page about your individual financial pictures. However, in the future, it may be nice to take time each month to sit down together and look over the numbers. Viewing credit card statements and account balances can be a way to keep you accountable as far as goals and also open the floor for an ongoing discussion with your spouse.

3. Be candid about any bad habits. Before you get started, you must be forthright with your spouse about any habits you happen to have that are not apparent on your credit reports.

An example of a bad habit would include not taking the time to write down purchases made on your debit card so you can balance your check book. When you were single, this may have not seemed like a huge deal, but with two people sharing accounts it can quickly become a problem.

Other bad habits you need to bring to your spouse would include past blemishes on your credit like having too many credit cards open, being in default on student loans or having bills in collection. All of these issues can impact credit, but they can also be addressed and resolved.

4. Refrain from pointing the finger. Placing blame and arguing over money will not make any issues better. If you ask your spouse to be honest about credit challenges and then start the blame game you will probably not get that same level of honesty in the future.

5. Listen to understand, not to reply. This means looking at your spouse as he or she is speaking, listening carefully to fully get his or her point of view, and then taking that one step further by confirming what you have heard.

When you sit down to have a tough conversation with your spouse, you will break the trust if you are not willing to listen. Don’t ask the tough questions unless you are ready to handle any answer.

The exchange of information should be fair and equal.



Part 2 Setting Ground Rules.

1. Decide if you will merge all the money or maintain separate accounts. Even after getting married there are no laws that say you have to merge all your accounts. Having separate accounts does not mean neither of you knows what the other is doing. Both partners should have access to the records of the other since you are sharing a household.

Depending on the credit scores for both spouses, it may make more sense to keep separate accounts especially if you want to buy a home soon. One spouse alone on a mortgage is going to have a higher chance of getting the loan than two people with mixed credit scores.

2. Determine who will be the primary overseer of your money. This will include how you make decisions about both small and large purchases. The person who is most organized and financially savvy may be the best choice for managing the finances. However, both partners should take on the responsibility in some way. So, choose duties according to your individual strengths.

For example, one of you may be better at saving, so you will be in charge of building an emergency fund and overseeing retirement savings. The other may be in charge of paying monthly bills and balancing the checkbook. Decide based on what’s best for you and your spouse.

3. Agree about which of you will handle certain expenses. You will need to know who is writing the check for rent, paying the electric bill and other household bills. You do not want to get into a situation where both of you thought the other paid the electric bill and you learn that it wasn’t paid when the lights are turned off. You also don’t want to pay bills twice and be short money.

Being upfront about how much both of you make and how you will divide the bills will make things much easier. Some families divide everything I half while others just pool their money regardless of who makes what.

The use of credit cards versus cash should also be explored as one partner may be used to always using a card and then paying it off once a month while the other only uses cash. This needs to be talked about.

4. Don’t make big purchases without your spouse’s blessing. Regardless of who makes more money, a big ticket item should be bought together. This is a good time to set boundaries about how much either of you can spend without talking to your spouse. This can be as simple as saying you have a spending limit of $100 without checking in since that is a low amount in your budget and won’t overdraw the account.



Part 3 Overcoming Money Troubles.

1. Build a household budget. This budget should include all the household bills, ongoing needs and bills that were outstanding from before you got married. The budget needs to be realistic and something you both commit to. Consider these tips:

Tally up every single monthly expense and plan for them in advance.

Include separate and joint goals.

Include long-term goals like saving for a down payment on a house.

Negotiate with ongoing bills to cut down interest rates or get rid of fees.

Automate whatever you can so that you don’t miss paying bills and acquire late fees.

Go back and revise your budget as needed.

2. Start building an emergency fund. If you didn’t already have an emergency fund before getting married, now is the time to build one. An emergency fund acts as a cushion in times when unexpected expenses pop up or one of you is out of work.

How big your emergency account is will depend on you and your spouse. Many families tuck away enough money for at least 3 to 6 months of expenses. This provides greater security over the long haul.

This savings account would be for true emergencies only, not impulse buys. Take the time to set boundaries as to what qualifies as an emergency.

Some households use a credit card for emergencies like car repairs. Make sure you both agree if this is a good use of your credit cards and leave the available balance for such an emergency. If either of you has problems with managing credit cards, this may not be the best option for your household.

3. Know your debt situation and decide on a strategy to pay it off.[13] Both of you should have a very clear idea of the other person’s debt as well as your own. Don’t fall prey to the idea that it’s your spouse’s problem—it’s not. Both of your debt is usually considered during major purchases, so working together to shrink each person’s debt is ideal.

It can also be helpful to get financial advising or attend a debt reduction course for couples. If you have a significant amount of debt—or have no idea where to start to pay it down—it may be practical to involve a professional who can assist you.

4. Plan for your retirements. Talk to your spouse and come up with a plan that suits both of you for retirement and start saving. Keep in mind, that men and women often have varying opinions when it comes to retirement, so be willing to compromise and consider your spouse’s perspective.

Include payments to 401K and other investments as a part of your budget. Part of this process also includes changing the beneficiaries for each account now that you are married.

If you don’t already, you also need to draw up life insurance policies to secure your spouse and your family in case of a tragedy.



Question : If we get a divorce, will my wife get 50% of my 401K too?

Answer : Honestly, this depends on the state and the county where you are getting divorced. Different locations have different rules of division in a divorce. Some states are equitable division, meaning you split 50/50 while others are not.



Warnings.

Money troubles have ended more than a few marriages. If you are both responsible, open and honest about money, it will make for a stronger marriage.

Be mindful that some people are sensitive about discussing money. To some, money means power and control and these are very volatile subjects. Handle with care.

It can be a difficult and uncomfortable transition going from being a single person in total control of your finances to being part of a couple. If your partner is resistant, give him or her time. If you can show them that you are interested in working as a team with no judgments, your spouse will eventually come around.

February 10, 2020

How to Organize Your Personal Year End Finances

How to Organize Your Personal Year End Finances.

You should never organize your year-end finances all at once. Rather, you should be engaged in a steady process of organizing and reorganizing your financial documents and information throughout the year. The process you use when organizing at the end of the year will be basically the same process you use monthly or quarterly to evaluate your investments, insurance, and budget. Use the year-end financial organizational process to get the opinion of a financial planner to help you streamline your finances, identify areas of waste, and take corrective actions to save money.

Method 1 Getting Organized.

1. Select your organizational categories. Knowing how to organize your financial documents can be tough. Thinking broadly about the sorts of documents you ought to organize for your year-end finances will help the process move along smoothly. Some documents might need to be copied and placed in multiple locations. For instance, education loan payments might need to be in a “loans” folder and also a “taxes” folder. Depending on what sort of financial documents you have, you may or may not need folders devoted to each of the main financial categories, which include.

Financial management (bank statements and loan records).

Insurance and annuity documents (policies and statements).

Estate documents (wills, trusts, and powers of attorney).

Investments (stocks and bond).

Income tax information (tax returns and documents attesting to charitable giving).

Employment and military records (discharge papers and employee benefits).

Home records (appraisals, renovation receipts).

Medical documents (summaries of recent appointments and any medical bills or payments made).

Legal documents (passports, personal records, and real estate settlements).

2. Use the same organizational system for all your documents. You probably receive and pay some bills through regular mail, and some through digital outlets or automatic account debiting. In this case, it's important to impose a parallel structure on your analog and digital documents alike.

For instance, if you organize your vertical files containing utility bills, credit card bills, and other significant financial documents in order that they were received, you should not organize your digital files into folders containing payments, bills, and receipts according to the company or institution that you made the payments to.

3. Know what to keep. Retain anything tax-related for at least three years. Keep anything that demonstrates a financial loss for seven years. For instance, you ought to keep a bill of sale on a property that sold for less than what you paid for it. You should also retain receipts for transactions paid by credit card until you get the credit card bill that reflects them. Finally, keep all monthly account statements until you get the year-end reconciliation statement.

Conversely, you should know what to get rid of.When new insurance policies arrive, get rid of the old ones.

Err on the side of caution when disposing of financial documents. If you're unsure if you need to keep something, retain it.

For more in-depth guidelines on what you should pitch and keep, consult IRS Publication 17.

4. Use an app or website to help you organize. There are a variety of handy apps to help get your year-end finances organized. For instance, you might check out feedthepig.com, manilla.com, or mint.com.Apps that might help include Mint, Personal Capital, and Spending Tracker.

Method 2 Looking Ahead.

1. Set a budget. Find ways to save next year. Use your year-end financial organization time to identify sources that are draining your money. For instance, if you're paying for cable TV but never watch it, think about cancelling it altogether.

Overall, you should be spending about 35% of your income on home expenses (rent, utilities, and groceries), 15% on transportation expenses (car insurance, train fare, and auto repairs), 25% on entertainment and other miscellaneous expenses, 15% on paying off debt, and putting the final 10% of your income toward savings.

If you live in an expensive area or have a low income, you might need to contribute more money to home expenses and less toward debt or miscellaneous expenditures.

2. Simplify payments and financial data for next year. When you're done organizing your current year's financial data and documentation, look for ways to streamline the process next year. For instance, you can cut back on time spent searching for wayward documents by using automatic bill payments. You might also use debiting by tying regular payments like utilities and credit card charges directly to your bank account.

Cut back on the number of credit cards you use regularly. This will reduce the number of credit card bills you need to juggle. Use the credit card with the lowest interest rate as your day-to-day credit card, and use the other cards once a month in order to prevent their disuse from hurting your credit score.

For the same reason, limit your bank accounts. You should have one checking account and one savings account. If you have multiple checking and savings accounts, close the one with the most fees and least generous terms of service.

Consolidate your retirement accounts and investments, too. If you have several IRAs, transfer all the money into a single IRA. Use one brokerage firm to simplify investments.

3. Keep your finances organized throughout the year. Instead of putting all your receipts, account statements, and other financial documents in a stack and watching them slowly pile up over the course of a year, put them in the appropriate file or folder as you receive them. This will prevent confusion when trying to organize everything at year's end.

Use a three-ring binder with pockets to organize your financial materials in an orderly way. Move non-current financial records to your filing cabinet.

If you feel more comfortable printing out digital documents, print them out and put them in your vertical file or binder.

If you don't print out digital receipts and other documents, ensure that you put them in the appropriate folder according to your predesignated system as you receive them. For instance, when you get your digital W-2, immediately download it and put it with your other tax documents.

If you need to copy certain digital documents to make them accessible in multiple locations, don't be afraid to do so.

Method 3 Evaluating Your Financial Health.

1. Consult a financial planner or accountant. With the help of a certified financial planner or accountant, you'll be able to get your year-end finances under control. They can help you find ways to save when you file taxes in the coming months, and can explain some of the nuances of the tax code. For instance, you might want to ask.

Should I accelerate or defer income?

What losses or gains should I take this year?

Should I convert my traditional IRA to a Roth IRA so that my earnings will grow tax-free?

Are there any charitable donations I should make?

2. Total your year-to-date spending. You should have a column with all the payments, investments, and savings you have at the end of the year. Compare these numbers to their counterparts at the beginning of the year to get an overall sense of your financial health.

Your investment value should be greater at the end of the year than it was at the beginning of the year.

Your savings should be higher at the end of the year than it was at the beginning of the year.

Your spending should be less than the value of your savings.

3. Review your credit reports. Each year, you are entitled to three free credit reports, one each from the three major credit agencies (Experian, Equifax, and TransUnion). These reports will let you know if your credit score is good or if it needs a boost.

The best way to check your credit reports is not to check all three at once, but rather to space them out regularly over time. Ideally, you'd check one every four months.

4. Check your portfolio. Read the latest reports from your stock broker or financial planner to determine the relative health of your investments. If your portfolio is not doing well, think about investing elsewhere. Talk to a certified financial planner or stockbroker for advice about how to develop a robust portfolio.

Method  4 Finding Ways to Save.

1. Analyze your insurance coverage. If you have home, life, auto, or other insurance, contact some agents representing insurers in your area to find out if you have the best coverage you can afford. If you've made improvements to your home over the past year, you may have increased the value of your home, and that value should be reflected in your insurance policy.

Likewise, if you've welcomed a new family member into your family over the past year, you must check with your insurance provider to guarantee that they're covered under your insurance.

2. Review your tax data. Working with a tax professional, find ways to reduce your tax burden before the year is out. Charitable giving is the easiest way to do this. Look for reputable charities whose work you believe in through GuideStar (http://www.guidestar.org), CharityWatch (https://www.charitywatch.org/home) and Charity Navigator (http://www.charitynavigator.org).

You can also make in-kind (material) donations to thrift stores like the Salvation Army in exchange for a tax discount.

You can also qualify for tax deductions based on work-related expenses like travel or items of clothing you bought specifically for work.

3. Update your information where necessary. If you've had a change in your marital status you may need to revise your tax withholding and/or employee health coverage. If you're unsure if you need to update this information, contact a financial planner for assistance.

4. Empty your flexible spending account. A flexible spending account for healthcare should be used to cover outstanding claims from your doctor, dentist, or other health provider. If you have a flexible spending account oriented toward other types of spending like dependent care, employ the account to cover the appropriate expenses before the year is out.

Only $500 of a flexible spending account can carry over into the following year, so it's important to take full advantage of the account before the year ends.

January 22, 2020