how to protect your finances when your spouse files for bankruptcy

How to Protect Your Finances when Your Spouse Files for Bankruptcy.

When your spouse files for bankruptcy, the bankruptcy should not affect your credit score. However, you may still be affected in other ways. For example, you will still have to pay off joint debts. Also, the bankruptcy trustee can seize any property your spouse owns, even if you are a joint owner. Accordingly, you and your spouse should carefully consider which bankruptcy is best for the family or whether you should pursue a non-bankruptcy option.



Part 1 Identifying Joint and Separate Property.

1. Identify all property you and your spouse own. When your spouse files for bankruptcy, they will have to list all of their property on a schedule and report it. The trustee uses this information to determine the size of the bankruptcy estate. This information is important because the trustee may be able to force your spouse to sell property in order to pay their creditors. The less property your spouse owns, the better off they will be.

Go through your possessions and estimate how much the property is worth. Also figure out who owns it.

As a spouse, you want to be on the lookout for property you jointly own with your spouse. Unless this property is exempt, it goes into your spouse's estate, which means you might lose it depending on the bankruptcy your spouse files.

2. Check if you live in a community property state. The ownership of certain property may depend on the state where you are living. Some states are “community property” states, and this means that any property you or your spouse acquired during the marriage is owned equally by both of you.

For example, you might have bought a car. In a community property state, the car is generally considered the property of both you and your spouse—regardless of whether your spouse is on the title.

The following are community property states: Arizona, California, Idaho, Louisiana, Nevada, New Mexico, Texas, Washington, and Wisconsin. Community property laws also apply in some situations in Alaska.

Because community property laws differ, you should work closely with a lawyer in your state to identify all property that will be counted as part of the bankruptcy estate.

3. Determine ownership in a common law state. If you don't live in a community property state, then you live in a common law state. In common law states, the owner is generally the person whose name is on the title. If your name alone appears on the title, then the asset probably will not be included in the bankruptcy estate.

If both names are on the title, then you and your spouse both own half of the asset and the asset will have to be listed as part of the bankruptcy estate.

The trustee might be able to force a sale of the asset if they can convince the judge that the benefit of selling the asset outweighs any detriment you will face. However, the trustee will still have to pay you the full-value of your half of the asset. The trustee can only use the portion your bankrupt spouse owned to pay their creditors.

4. Check if you own your home in “tenancy by the entirety.” This is a form of ownership in which the asset is owned by the marriage. Many couples own their home in tenancy by the entirety. Depending on your state, assets owned in this manner are exempted from the bankruptcy estate.

5. Identify bankruptcy exemptions. You can exempt property from being counted as part of your spouse's estate. Each state has bankruptcy exemptions which you can use. The federal government also has a list of exemptions. In some states, you can choose between the state or federal exemptions, whereas other states will require that you use the state exemptions.

In Missouri, for example, you can exempt up to $15,000 in a home that you live in or up to $5,000 in a mobile home. You can also exempt up to $3,000 in a motor vehicle.

Say you and your spouse jointly own a car in Missouri. If the car is worth $16,000, then your spouse has $8,000 in the car. Only $3,000 is exempt. Accordingly, the trustee might want to sell the car and use the $5,000 to pay off creditors. If the trustee sells the car, they must pay the spouse who didn't file for bankruptcy $8,000.

In some states, you can double an exemption if you file a joint bankruptcy petition so long as you both own the property. For example, if the state allows you to exempt $3,000 in a car, then you can exempt $6,000 if you and your spouse own it together.

6. Avoid transferring property. You might think you can protect your assets by having your spouse transfer them before filing for bankruptcy. If you live in a common law state, you might think you can make the transfer into your name so that you hold title to all of the family property and your spouse holds only the debts individually. Unfortunately, this tactic won't work.

Instead, your spouse must report all transfers. If your spouse transferred the property during the two years before they filed for bankruptcy, then the trustee can get the property back.

Your spouse will also get in trouble if they try to hide the transfer. Everyone files a bankruptcy petition under penalty of perjury. If caught lying, your spouse could be prosecuted and have the entire bankruptcy cancelled.



Part 2 Handling Joint Debts.

1. Identify your joint debts. You and your spouse might have joint debts. This means that you both have agreed to be 100% responsible for the full debt. Accordingly, if your spouse files for bankruptcy, you are not relieved of your responsibility for the debt. Although your spouse will have their obligation discharged, your obligation will not be. You will still remain responsible for the entire amount. Joint debts can be formed in the following ways.

You and your spouse took out the debt together.

You cosigned on a loan for your spouse.

You live in a community property state and you or your spouse took out a debt during the marriage.

2. Continue to make payments on your joint debts. If you have a joint debt—say, for your car—then you must continue to make payments on it, even if you are the spouse who didn't file for bankruptcy. If you stop, then your credit score will take a hit because your missed payments will be reported to the credit reporting agencies.

3. Consider filing a joint bankruptcy petition. You have the option of filing for bankruptcy along with your spouse. By doing so, you can discharge joint debts.[12] After a discharge, neither you nor your spouse is responsible for the joint debt.

Of course, a bankruptcy stays on your credit report for several years, and neither you nor your spouse will probably be able to secure new credit in the near future.

Nevertheless, a joint bankruptcy can be an excellent option if you have high joint debts which you have no way of paying off in the future. A joint bankruptcy can free you and your spouse of these crushing joint debts.



Part 3 Choosing the Right Bankruptcy.

1. Identify the different types of bankruptcy. U.S. law provides many different types of bankruptcies, but the two most common for individuals are Chapter 7 and Chapter 13. You should analyze which is best for you, depending on your circumstances.

Chapter 7. This is called a “liquidation” bankruptcy. In a Chapter 7, your spouse can wipe out all of their debts. However, in order to get that benefit, they generally must sell non-exempt property and use the proceeds to pay their creditors.

Chapter 13. In a Chapter 13, the debtor gets to keep their property. Instead of selling it, they will pay back creditors for three to five years. At the end of the repayment period, any remaining unsecured debts (like credit cards) will be forgiven. Chapter 13 is a good option if you have a lot of non-exempt property that is jointly owned.

Joint bankruptcy petition. A joint bankruptcy petition may be the best option if you and your spouse have large joint debts. You can file both Chapter 7 and 13 jointly.

2. Meet with an attorney. Only a qualified bankruptcy attorney can analyze your situation and identify the best course of action. You should get a referral to a bankruptcy attorney by contacting your local or state bar association. Once you have a referral, call up the attorney and schedule a consultation. Ask how much the fee will be.

Your attorney can help you think through which bankruptcy to file—or whether a different alternative would be best.

3. Consider alternatives to bankruptcy. Your spouse should consider other options. These options might be better because they will impact your spouse's credit score less severely. Also, you don't jeopardize losing property. Common alternatives include.

Get a debt consolidation loan. Sometimes you can get a low-interest loan which you use to pay off all debts. You then have one payment to make.

Transfer debts to low interest credit cards. Many credit cards give 12-month grace periods for balance transfers. Interest doesn't accrue until the grace period ends.

Create a repayment plan with your creditors. They might be willing to work with you, especially if you mention that you are thinking of filing for bankruptcy. In bankruptcy, unsecured creditors rarely get paid back 100% of what they are owed. For this reason, they may be willing to reduce the interest rate or extend payments over a long period of time so that you don't file for bankruptcy.

Use a credit counselor. Credit counseling services can help you negotiate with creditors and then consolidate debt. These counselors also help you come up with repayment plans you can afford.



Question : If my wife files bankruptcy, what happens to our jointly-owned house? How does this affect my loan on the house?

Answer : In a bankruptcy, all your debts are listed against all your assets. If your wife does not have sufficient assets to pay for her debts, then her half of the house can be seized. It can either be transferred as an asset to a creditor, or (forcibly) liquidated. But if the bank sells your house, you have to get your share. I.e. only her share can be seized. For a detailed calculation, contact an accountant.

February 17, 2020

How to Protect Your Finances when Your Spouse Files for Bankruptcy.

How to Protect Your Finances when Your Spouse Files for Bankruptcy.

When your spouse files for bankruptcy, the bankruptcy should not affect your credit score. However, you may still be affected in other ways. For example, you will still have to pay off joint debts. Also, the bankruptcy trustee can seize any property your spouse owns, even if you are a joint owner. Accordingly, you and your spouse should carefully consider which bankruptcy is best for the family or whether you should pursue a non-bankruptcy option.



Part 1 Identifying Joint and Separate Property.

1. Identify all property you and your spouse own. When your spouse files for bankruptcy, they will have to list all of their property on a schedule and report it. The trustee uses this information to determine the size of the bankruptcy estate. This information is important because the trustee may be able to force your spouse to sell property in order to pay their creditors. The less property your spouse owns, the better off they will be.

Go through your possessions and estimate how much the property is worth. Also figure out who owns it.

As a spouse, you want to be on the lookout for property you jointly own with your spouse. Unless this property is exempt, it goes into your spouse's estate, which means you might lose it depending on the bankruptcy your spouse files.

2. Check if you live in a community property state. The ownership of certain property may depend on the state where you are living. Some states are “community property” states, and this means that any property you or your spouse acquired during the marriage is owned equally by both of you.

For example, you might have bought a car. In a community property state, the car is generally considered the property of both you and your spouse—regardless of whether your spouse is on the title.

The following are community property states: Arizona, California, Idaho, Louisiana, Nevada, New Mexico, Texas, Washington, and Wisconsin. Community property laws also apply in some situations in Alaska.

Because community property laws differ, you should work closely with a lawyer in your state to identify all property that will be counted as part of the bankruptcy estate.

3. Determine ownership in a common law state. If you don't live in a community property state, then you live in a common law state. In common law states, the owner is generally the person whose name is on the title. If your name alone appears on the title, then the asset probably will not be included in the bankruptcy estate.

If both names are on the title, then you and your spouse both own half of the asset and the asset will have to be listed as part of the bankruptcy estate.

The trustee might be able to force a sale of the asset if they can convince the judge that the benefit of selling the asset outweighs any detriment you will face. However, the trustee will still have to pay you the full-value of your half of the asset. The trustee can only use the portion your bankrupt spouse owned to pay their creditors.

4. Check if you own your home in “tenancy by the entirety.” This is a form of ownership in which the asset is owned by the marriage. Many couples own their home in tenancy by the entirety. Depending on your state, assets owned in this manner are exempted from the bankruptcy estate.

5. Identify bankruptcy exemptions. You can exempt property from being counted as part of your spouse's estate. Each state has bankruptcy exemptions which you can use. The federal government also has a list of exemptions. In some states, you can choose between the state or federal exemptions, whereas other states will require that you use the state exemptions.

In Missouri, for example, you can exempt up to $15,000 in a home that you live in or up to $5,000 in a mobile home. You can also exempt up to $3,000 in a motor vehicle.

Say you and your spouse jointly own a car in Missouri. If the car is worth $16,000, then your spouse has $8,000 in the car. Only $3,000 is exempt. Accordingly, the trustee might want to sell the car and use the $5,000 to pay off creditors. If the trustee sells the car, they must pay the spouse who didn't file for bankruptcy $8,000.

In some states, you can double an exemption if you file a joint bankruptcy petition so long as you both own the property. For example, if the state allows you to exempt $3,000 in a car, then you can exempt $6,000 if you and your spouse own it together.

6. Avoid transferring property. You might think you can protect your assets by having your spouse transfer them before filing for bankruptcy. If you live in a common law state, you might think you can make the transfer into your name so that you hold title to all of the family property and your spouse holds only the debts individually. Unfortunately, this tactic won't work.

Instead, your spouse must report all transfers. If your spouse transferred the property during the two years before they filed for bankruptcy, then the trustee can get the property back.

Your spouse will also get in trouble if they try to hide the transfer. Everyone files a bankruptcy petition under penalty of perjury. If caught lying, your spouse could be prosecuted and have the entire bankruptcy cancelled.



Part 2 Handling Joint Debts.

1. Identify your joint debts. You and your spouse might have joint debts. This means that you both have agreed to be 100% responsible for the full debt. Accordingly, if your spouse files for bankruptcy, you are not relieved of your responsibility for the debt. Although your spouse will have their obligation discharged, your obligation will not be. You will still remain responsible for the entire amount. Joint debts can be formed in the following ways.

You and your spouse took out the debt together.

You cosigned on a loan for your spouse.

You live in a community property state and you or your spouse took out a debt during the marriage.

2. Continue to make payments on your joint debts. If you have a joint debt—say, for your car—then you must continue to make payments on it, even if you are the spouse who didn't file for bankruptcy. If you stop, then your credit score will take a hit because your missed payments will be reported to the credit reporting agencies.

3. Consider filing a joint bankruptcy petition. You have the option of filing for bankruptcy along with your spouse. By doing so, you can discharge joint debts.[12] After a discharge, neither you nor your spouse is responsible for the joint debt.

Of course, a bankruptcy stays on your credit report for several years, and neither you nor your spouse will probably be able to secure new credit in the near future.

Nevertheless, a joint bankruptcy can be an excellent option if you have high joint debts which you have no way of paying off in the future. A joint bankruptcy can free you and your spouse of these crushing joint debts.



Part 3 Choosing the Right Bankruptcy.

1. Identify the different types of bankruptcy. U.S. law provides many different types of bankruptcies, but the two most common for individuals are Chapter 7 and Chapter 13. You should analyze which is best for you, depending on your circumstances.

Chapter 7. This is called a “liquidation” bankruptcy. In a Chapter 7, your spouse can wipe out all of their debts. However, in order to get that benefit, they generally must sell non-exempt property and use the proceeds to pay their creditors.

Chapter 13. In a Chapter 13, the debtor gets to keep their property. Instead of selling it, they will pay back creditors for three to five years. At the end of the repayment period, any remaining unsecured debts (like credit cards) will be forgiven. Chapter 13 is a good option if you have a lot of non-exempt property that is jointly owned.

Joint bankruptcy petition. A joint bankruptcy petition may be the best option if you and your spouse have large joint debts. You can file both Chapter 7 and 13 jointly.

2. Meet with an attorney. Only a qualified bankruptcy attorney can analyze your situation and identify the best course of action. You should get a referral to a bankruptcy attorney by contacting your local or state bar association. Once you have a referral, call up the attorney and schedule a consultation. Ask how much the fee will be.

Your attorney can help you think through which bankruptcy to file—or whether a different alternative would be best.

3. Consider alternatives to bankruptcy. Your spouse should consider other options. These options might be better because they will impact your spouse's credit score less severely. Also, you don't jeopardize losing property. Common alternatives include.

Get a debt consolidation loan. Sometimes you can get a low-interest loan which you use to pay off all debts. You then have one payment to make.

Transfer debts to low interest credit cards. Many credit cards give 12-month grace periods for balance transfers. Interest doesn't accrue until the grace period ends.

Create a repayment plan with your creditors. They might be willing to work with you, especially if you mention that you are thinking of filing for bankruptcy. In bankruptcy, unsecured creditors rarely get paid back 100% of what they are owed. For this reason, they may be willing to reduce the interest rate or extend payments over a long period of time so that you don't file for bankruptcy.

Use a credit counselor. Credit counseling services can help you negotiate with creditors and then consolidate debt. These counselors also help you come up with repayment plans you can afford.



Question : If my wife files bankruptcy, what happens to our jointly-owned house? How does this affect my loan on the house?

Answer : In a bankruptcy, all your debts are listed against all your assets. If your wife does not have sufficient assets to pay for her debts, then her half of the house can be seized. It can either be transferred as an asset to a creditor, or (forcibly) liquidated. But if the bank sells your house, you have to get your share. I.e. only her share can be seized. For a detailed calculation, contact an accountant.

February 25, 2020

How to Stop Being Broke

How to Stop Being Broke.

If you're sick of being broke, it's time to take control of your finances! Whether you need to work on your spending habits, learn how to save, or find ways to earn more money, you can find a way to stop being broke. Follow these steps to start working towards financial freedom and better peace of mind.

Part 1 Getting into the Right Mindset.
1. Set goals. If you want to change your financial situation, you need to get specific about want you want to accomplish. Think about exactly what you want your finances to look like and what you can do to achieve those goals.
Setting short-term goals in addition to long-term goals can help keep you motivated by providing you with a sense of accomplishment.
Create a budget for non-essential items and hold yourself accountable for it each month. If you go over-budget one month, tell yourself that your budget for the next month is reduced as a result.
2. Stop comparing yourself to others. If you're spending beyond your means because you feel that you need to keep up with your friends or show others that you can afford a certain lifestyle, you're not doing yourself any favors. Stop worrying about what others can afford and think about how you can live within your means.
Stop equating your self-worth with your ability to buy things. This kind of thinking will make you extremely unhappy in the long run and will probably get you stuck in debt forever.
3. Track your expenses. To understand exactly where all your money is going, keep careful track of every dollar you spend. You can do this with a pen and paper or electronically if you use a card for everything, but make sure to account for everything. This simple habit will help you spend more wisely.
Try categorizing your expenses and adding them up on a monthly basis. For example, you could create categories for food, housing, transportation, utilities, insurance, entertainment, and clothing. Then calculate what percentage of your income you are spending on each category. You might realize that your expenses in some of these categories are way too high.
To understand how much you can afford to spend each day, subtract your fixed expenses from your monthly income and divide the remaining amount by 31.
4. Make a plan for getting out of debt. If you are broke because you have credit card debt, a car payment, or student loans, think about what you can do to pay off these debts faster.
Making even a few extra payments each year can help you pay off your debts much faster.
5. Start saving. This may seem impossible if you are always broke, but planning for the future will help you get out of this cycle. Start small by just putting $50 in an emergency fund each month.
Don't forget to save for retirement! Take advantage of the 401k offerings at your company or open an IRA account.

Part 2 Avoiding Money Traps.
1. Avoid lending to others. While you may want to help out your loved ones who are in need, you really shouldn't be lending money if you can't afford to pay your own bills.
2. Avoid payday loans. While they may seem like a good solution if you're strapped for cash, the interest rates are ridiculously high, so they will only get you further into debt.
3. Understand how much it will really cost. Before you take out any kind of loan or finance any purchase, be sure to calculate what your monthly payments will be, how long it will take you to repay the debt, and how much you will be paying in interest.
In some cases, paying interest may be worth it. For example, most people cannot afford to purchase a house without taking out a mortgage, but depending on the price of the house and the average cost of rent in your area, you might still be saving a significant amount of money by choosing to buy with a mortgage instead of renting.
Be especially wary of high interest rates for depreciating assets like vehicles. If you decide to sell your vehicle after you have owned it for several years, it may be worth less than what you owe on it. This can also happen with real estate when the market conditions are poor.
4. Avoid impulse buys. If you always have a plan for what you will buy, you will have a much easier time managing your finances.
If you have a hard time controlling your purchases when you go to the mall, try to avoid going to the mall at all.
Write out a list when you go shopping so you will always know exactly what you need to buy.
5. Use credit cards wisely. If you have a harder time keeping track of your expenses and sticking to your budget when you use a credit card, stop using it.
Paying with cash instead of a credit card will allow you to visualize how much of your available funds you are spending on a given purchase.
If you are able to stick to your budget when using a credit card, look for one that has no annual fee and will reward you with cash back or other incentives. Just make sure you always pay your bill on time or these incentives will not be worth the price you are paying in interest.

Part 3 Spending Less.
1. Assess your daily or weekly spending habits. Once you have a solid grasp on what you are spending your money on, you can start cutting out expensive habits.
2. Buy used items. You can save on everything from your next car to furnishings for your home by buying gently used items.
You can sometimes find really great clothes that have barely been worn at thrift shops for a fraction of the price.
3. Look for monthly expenses that can be cut. If you pay for monthly memberships or subscriptions, carefully assess how much they cost, how much you use them, and whether you could give them up.
Make sure you're not paying for services that you never use. For example, if you have premium cable channels that you never watch, you can cancel them without feeling like you are making any sacrifices. The same goes for your cell phone bill if you are paying for more data than you ever use.
4. Compare items or brands when shopping. If you're on a tight budget, you want to make sure you're always getting the best deal on absolutely everything. Take some time to compare prices for items you purchase regularly and for large purchases.
If you've had the same auto insurance carrier or cable company for a long time, there might be better deals out there, so be sure to comparison shop regularly.
Shopping for necessities online can be cheaper in some instances, but make sure you take shipping charges into account.
Use coupons to save some extra cash. Keep in mind that many retailers accept competitors' coupons.
5. Ask for a better deal. You can always ask your service providers for better deals, especially if you've been a loyal customer. The worst they can say is no.
Try this with your cable and internet providers, insurance companies, and cell phone carriers.
6. Spend less on entertainment or at restaurants. Whether it's dining out or going to amusement parks, entertainment can eat up a big chunk of your budget. Look for less expensive ways to have fun.
Learn to cook at home and keep the fridge well stocked with ingredients for things that you know you can cook from scratch when you come home late and don't have much time to whip up a grand meal.
Instead of going out to eat with friends, invite them over for a potluck.
7. Do more yourself. It may be convenient to use a laundry service or to have someone else shovel your driveway, but if you're physically capable of doing these things yourself. Think about the money you can save.
If you're not very handy, try to teach yourself to do more around the house. If you need a simple repair done, you may be able to watch a video online or take a class at a local home improvement store to learn how to do it yourself.
8. Save money on energy. Go green around the house to save money on your utility bills each month.
Sealing up air gaps can reduce your heating and cooling bills. If you own your home, investing in a properly insulated attic can make a huge difference.
Turning your heat down just a few degrees in the winter can make a big difference in your energy bills as well. A programmable thermostat will let you automate the temperature of your house so you won't spend money on heating the place to a comfortable level when you're not at home.
9. Avoid bank and credit card fees. Choose your bank and credit card providers wisely in order to avoid unnecessary fees.
Make sure to only use the ATM at your bank if you will get charged for using outside ATMs.
10. Aim to have a few no-spend days a month. After a while, it becomes a game: "How can I run my life today without writing anything down in my little blue book?" "How ingenious can I be to make do with the things, food, and resources I already have at my disposal?" See how often you can turn this into a habit.

Part 4 Earning More.
1. Get a better job. If spending less is just not enough, it may be time to get a better job that will allow you to make more money. Start by updating your resume, searching for listings online, and networking with other professionals in your field.
Don't forget to look for advancement opportunities within your company.
2. Do something else on the side. Using your skills to provide freelance or consulting services is a great way to earn additional income. If this won't work with your profession, get a part-time job or find creative ways to make some extra cash on the side.
You can make some extra money by performing jobs like mowing lawns, cleaning houses, or even walking dogs for people in your neighborhood.
3. Sell stuff you don't need. You probably have at least a few possessions that you no longer need or want, and you can turn those items into extra cash by selling them to people who do want them.
If you have lots of unwanted items, try having a yard sale.

Community Q&A.

Question : My family barely has any money. My dad has his own company, but it hasn't gotten any business in a long time. I have some money saved up, and I was think of leaving a little in my dad's wallet. What do you think?
Answer : Definitely do. Work as much as you can and give and much as you can. Also putting your family's money in a good, interest-bearing account can help a lot.

Tips.

To always have money in the bank to pay regular bills, add them up for the past year and divide by 52. Round up to the next 25, 50, or 100 dollars. Remember to add in quarterly or annual bills, too.
Buy clothes that can be used for several different occasions instead of only one-time events.
Use coupons on items whenever you can.
Start a Christmas Club account, but put in more than you expect to spend on gifts. The excess is great for a mini-vacation or special purchase.
Get a jar to collect your spare change. When it's full, take it to the bank. (Don't take it to one of those coin counters, as they charge for counting your change.)
Take it a day at a time. Start small, set goals, reward yourself (not with any type of shopping, of course) and enjoy playing the game.

July 02, 2020

How to Prevent Arguments About Finances

How to Prevent Arguments About Finances.

Money and finances are one of the most common sources of conflict for couples. Money problems can stem from not being open about your finances and having differing views of how money should be spent. To help prevent fights about finances, discuss each other’s views about money, come to a compromise that respects both your values, communicate about your finances openly, and set goals to help keep your finances in order.



Method 1 Discussing Your Views About Money.

1. Talk about your view on money. One of the money problems that arises between couples is due to their differing position on money. Some people are spenders and others are savers. These two mindsets can strongly clash. To help get past this problem, you should talk about these differences.

During this discussion, talk about whether you are a saver or spender.

Having open communication about your ideas and feelings on money can help you start to solve or eliminate problems.

For example, you may say, "I believe that money is hard-earned and should be enjoyed." Alternately, you may say, "Saving money is important to me. We work too hard for it to spend it often."

2. Discuss what money means to you. Often, the arguments about finances aren’t about money specifically, but about what money means to the people in the relationship. To help prevent any financial arguments, you and your partner should explain to each other what money means to you and what it signifies. This can help you understand each other.

For example, you may think that saving money means safety and security. You may think that saving money or spending it can show love and affection. Saving money may make you feel in control and like you have power.

You may feel that you deserve to spend your hard earned money on yourself, or you may feel that you deserve to save your hard earned money for future plans.

Determine if you or your partner use money as a way to measure success, status, or keep score with others.

Make sure to discuss any fears you have about money and the way that your family approached money growing up.

For example, you may say, "Saving money makes me feel safe. When we were growing up, we had no money, so having a savings account helps me feel like I'm taking care of my family."

3. Acknowledge your differences about money with an open mind. After you have discussed what money means to both of you, you should use the opportunity to understand each other’s position and ideas about money. You should not point fingers or try to make one of your right and wrong. There is nothing wrong with having different values about money. You have to work towards understanding, accepting, and compromising.

For example, work on understanding why your partner feels that spending money is something they have earned and deserved. Try to see how saving money makes your partner feel in control and safe.

Both you and your partner are two different people, which means you are not going to have the same opinions about everything. Communicating about your ideas of money can help prevent and avoid misunderstandings.

If your partner has illogical, irresponsible, or contradictory ideas about money, that is a separate issue. You want to accept different ideas about money, yet help your partner work through illogical money ideas that may harm your family.

Try saying, "I understand that you want to save money though I like to treat myself for my hard work. Can you explain to me why saving money is so important to you? I will explain to you why I think we deserve to spend some of our money."

4. Compromise with both of your sets of values. After you have figured out what each of you feels about money, you can then work on a compromise. Compromise means you both stay positive as you find a way to negotiate both of your values. Find some common ground that benefits you both. You should work on finding ways for both of your to compromise equally so one person isn’t giving up more than the other.

For example, you may come to a compromise where you set aside money each month to spend on yourself while your partner sets aside a similar amount to save. You both can come to an agreement on what things are considered special splurge purchases, and decide what you want to save money on to purchase or invest in in the future.

5. Take a break and come back to the discussion. If you and your partner are discussing money and start arguing or yelling, stop the conversation and go do something else. Stepping away for a moment will help you and your spouse have time to calm down and think more logically about what has been said.

You and your partner will not always agree about money. However, it is crucial that you learn how to compromise so you can meet everyone’s needs and address each other’s concerns.



Method 2 Communicating Effectively About Finances,

1. Be open about your finances. One way to help prevent arguments about money is the be open about your finances with your partner. This helps each of you be on the same page, so you won’t be keeping secrets about money or lying about money. These behaviors can cause problems and arguments.

When your relationship gets to the point where you start sharing bills and financial responsibilities, you should be open about all of your finances. This includes your debt, income, and financial obligations.

Tell your partner, "I want to share my finances with you. I have some student loan debt, a car payment, and two credit cards."

2. Keep your partner in the loop. You should share vital financial information with your partner so that you both stay informed of each other’s financial situation. This includes any changes to your income, tax returns, and credit reports. This helps maintain honesty and communication between you, and you can avoid potential problems if you keep something from your partner.

This often happens at the beginning of a partnership, when you let your partner know your financial situation. However, you should continue doing this throughout the relationship, especially if things change significantly.

For example, you may say, "My credit report has changed recently due to my recent bill payments. I'd like to go over what changed the credit report with you."

Another way to prevent arguments is to agree to text or call if you are thinking of purchasing something over an agreed upon spending limit, such as $100. If you or your partner is out shopping and finds something above the agreed upon limit, then sending a quick text or making a quick phone call may prevent an argument later on.

3. Establish weekly money talks. Another way to help prevent fights about money is to discuss any minor problems before they can turn into something worse. Getting together with your partner once every week or two to discuss the budget and any minor problems can help keep the lines of communication open and help prevent fights.

For example, you may get together and discuss how one of you spent more on groceries than was budgeted, or another minor financial problem. Addressing the problems early can help prevent the small things from turning into major problems.

You may say things like, "We went over the budget on groceries, but by cutting a few corners, we can adhere to it next month."

4. Talk about how you will approach helping out family. Many people help out family members financially. However, this can cause a lot of problems and arguments. To help prevent this, talk about what you and your partner want to do about helping out family members so you have a procedure in place.

For example, you may decide to help out a family member up to a certain dollar amount or a certain number of times each year. You may decide that you want to help out certain family members but not others. Discuss these issues with your partner and come up with a solution that you both can handle.

You may say, "I understand that your parents struggle, but we can only afford to help them for this set amount of money three times each year."



Method 3 Setting Financial Goals.

1. Create a budget. Budgets can help prevent a lot of arguments about money. Budgets create a solid plan for your money so there won’t be any questions or confusion about where the money goes and when. Budgets give you and your partner a guide to help stay on track where money is concerned.

If one partner has trouble adhering to the budget, you can look at the numbers and find areas that need improvement or adjustment.

Make sure to budget in money for extra purchases, such as an impulse buy or going out to dinner.

Include each of your money interests in the budget. If you like to spend money but your partner likes to save, budget those things in each month.

If budget has a negative connotation, consider calling it a “spending plan” instead of budget.

2. Share financial tasks. To help keep the financial responsibilities even and a joint effort, come up with a way share tasks and assign a duty to each person. This helps take all the pressure off one person and lets you work together to manage your finances.

For example, you may pay the bills while your partner makes and maintains the budget. You may focus on the savings account while your partner invests money.

3. Come up with long term goals. Figure out what your long term goals are for your money. Do you want to invest? Are you saving for a new car or house? Are there kids in the future? Do you want to take vacations? Each of these future plans are important. You should discuss what you and your partner want in the future and come up with a way to approach it.

Most of these purchases require pre-planning and saving. Prioritize what you want to save your money for.

4. Approach finances as a team. To help keep your finances running smoothly and eliminate any potential conflicts, work on your finances as a team. Even though one person may be in charge of the budget or paying the bills, you should talk about these ideas and sit down once a month to discuss the month’s finances.

You may decide to pay bills together and do the budget together instead of assigning the task. You may also switch back and forth and do a different financial task each month.

5. Consider having separate accounts. If finances and spending habits are a frequent source of frustration in your relationship, then you and your partner might consider setting up separate bank accounts and just maintain a joint account for your shared bills and savings. This may help to prevent arguments about finances if you each have a set amount of money to spend on whatever you want each month.

6. Seek professional help. If you and your partner fight too often about finances, you can seek professional help. You may want to visit a therapist who specializes in resolving conflicts in relationships. This can help you get past any barriers and help you learn how to compromise.

You may also want to visit a financial planner. Financial planners can help you figure out how to budget and compromise on financial issues.

February 25, 2020

how to prevent arguments about finances

How to Prevent Arguments About Finances.

Money and finances are one of the most common sources of conflict for couples. Money problems can stem from not being open about your finances and having differing views of how money should be spent. To help prevent fights about finances, discuss each other’s views about money, come to a compromise that respects both your values, communicate about your finances openly, and set goals to help keep your finances in order.



Method 1 Discussing Your Views About Money.

1. Talk about your view on money. One of the money problems that arises between couples is due to their differing position on money. Some people are spenders and others are savers. These two mindsets can strongly clash. To help get past this problem, you should talk about these differences.

During this discussion, talk about whether you are a saver or spender.

Having open communication about your ideas and feelings on money can help you start to solve or eliminate problems.

For example, you may say, "I believe that money is hard-earned and should be enjoyed." Alternately, you may say, "Saving money is important to me. We work too hard for it to spend it often."

2. Discuss what money means to you. Often, the arguments about finances aren’t about money specifically, but about what money means to the people in the relationship. To help prevent any financial arguments, you and your partner should explain to each other what money means to you and what it signifies. This can help you understand each other.

For example, you may think that saving money means safety and security. You may think that saving money or spending it can show love and affection. Saving money may make you feel in control and like you have power.

You may feel that you deserve to spend your hard earned money on yourself, or you may feel that you deserve to save your hard earned money for future plans.

Determine if you or your partner use money as a way to measure success, status, or keep score with others.

Make sure to discuss any fears you have about money and the way that your family approached money growing up.

For example, you may say, "Saving money makes me feel safe. When we were growing up, we had no money, so having a savings account helps me feel like I'm taking care of my family."

3. Acknowledge your differences about money with an open mind. After you have discussed what money means to both of you, you should use the opportunity to understand each other’s position and ideas about money. You should not point fingers or try to make one of your right and wrong. There is nothing wrong with having different values about money. You have to work towards understanding, accepting, and compromising.

For example, work on understanding why your partner feels that spending money is something they have earned and deserved. Try to see how saving money makes your partner feel in control and safe.

Both you and your partner are two different people, which means you are not going to have the same opinions about everything. Communicating about your ideas of money can help prevent and avoid misunderstandings.

If your partner has illogical, irresponsible, or contradictory ideas about money, that is a separate issue. You want to accept different ideas about money, yet help your partner work through illogical money ideas that may harm your family.

Try saying, "I understand that you want to save money though I like to treat myself for my hard work. Can you explain to me why saving money is so important to you? I will explain to you why I think we deserve to spend some of our money."

4. Compromise with both of your sets of values. After you have figured out what each of you feels about money, you can then work on a compromise. Compromise means you both stay positive as you find a way to negotiate both of your values. Find some common ground that benefits you both. You should work on finding ways for both of your to compromise equally so one person isn’t giving up more than the other.

For example, you may come to a compromise where you set aside money each month to spend on yourself while your partner sets aside a similar amount to save. You both can come to an agreement on what things are considered special splurge purchases, and decide what you want to save money on to purchase or invest in in the future.

5. Take a break and come back to the discussion. If you and your partner are discussing money and start arguing or yelling, stop the conversation and go do something else. Stepping away for a moment will help you and your spouse have time to calm down and think more logically about what has been said.

You and your partner will not always agree about money. However, it is crucial that you learn how to compromise so you can meet everyone’s needs and address each other’s concerns.



Method 2 Communicating Effectively About Finances,

1. Be open about your finances. One way to help prevent arguments about money is the be open about your finances with your partner. This helps each of you be on the same page, so you won’t be keeping secrets about money or lying about money. These behaviors can cause problems and arguments.

When your relationship gets to the point where you start sharing bills and financial responsibilities, you should be open about all of your finances. This includes your debt, income, and financial obligations.

Tell your partner, "I want to share my finances with you. I have some student loan debt, a car payment, and two credit cards."

2. Keep your partner in the loop. You should share vital financial information with your partner so that you both stay informed of each other’s financial situation. This includes any changes to your income, tax returns, and credit reports. This helps maintain honesty and communication between you, and you can avoid potential problems if you keep something from your partner.

This often happens at the beginning of a partnership, when you let your partner know your financial situation. However, you should continue doing this throughout the relationship, especially if things change significantly.

For example, you may say, "My credit report has changed recently due to my recent bill payments. I'd like to go over what changed the credit report with you."

Another way to prevent arguments is to agree to text or call if you are thinking of purchasing something over an agreed upon spending limit, such as $100. If you or your partner is out shopping and finds something above the agreed upon limit, then sending a quick text or making a quick phone call may prevent an argument later on.

3. Establish weekly money talks. Another way to help prevent fights about money is to discuss any minor problems before they can turn into something worse. Getting together with your partner once every week or two to discuss the budget and any minor problems can help keep the lines of communication open and help prevent fights.

For example, you may get together and discuss how one of you spent more on groceries than was budgeted, or another minor financial problem. Addressing the problems early can help prevent the small things from turning into major problems.

You may say things like, "We went over the budget on groceries, but by cutting a few corners, we can adhere to it next month."

4. Talk about how you will approach helping out family. Many people help out family members financially. However, this can cause a lot of problems and arguments. To help prevent this, talk about what you and your partner want to do about helping out family members so you have a procedure in place.

For example, you may decide to help out a family member up to a certain dollar amount or a certain number of times each year. You may decide that you want to help out certain family members but not others. Discuss these issues with your partner and come up with a solution that you both can handle.

You may say, "I understand that your parents struggle, but we can only afford to help them for this set amount of money three times each year."



Method 3 Setting Financial Goals.

1. Create a budget. Budgets can help prevent a lot of arguments about money. Budgets create a solid plan for your money so there won’t be any questions or confusion about where the money goes and when. Budgets give you and your partner a guide to help stay on track where money is concerned.

If one partner has trouble adhering to the budget, you can look at the numbers and find areas that need improvement or adjustment.

Make sure to budget in money for extra purchases, such as an impulse buy or going out to dinner.

Include each of your money interests in the budget. If you like to spend money but your partner likes to save, budget those things in each month.

If budget has a negative connotation, consider calling it a “spending plan” instead of budget.

2. Share financial tasks. To help keep the financial responsibilities even and a joint effort, come up with a way share tasks and assign a duty to each person. This helps take all the pressure off one person and lets you work together to manage your finances.

For example, you may pay the bills while your partner makes and maintains the budget. You may focus on the savings account while your partner invests money.

3. Come up with long term goals. Figure out what your long term goals are for your money. Do you want to invest? Are you saving for a new car or house? Are there kids in the future? Do you want to take vacations? Each of these future plans are important. You should discuss what you and your partner want in the future and come up with a way to approach it.

Most of these purchases require pre-planning and saving. Prioritize what you want to save your money for.

4. Approach finances as a team. To help keep your finances running smoothly and eliminate any potential conflicts, work on your finances as a team. Even though one person may be in charge of the budget or paying the bills, you should talk about these ideas and sit down once a month to discuss the month’s finances.

You may decide to pay bills together and do the budget together instead of assigning the task. You may also switch back and forth and do a different financial task each month.

5. Consider having separate accounts. If finances and spending habits are a frequent source of frustration in your relationship, then you and your partner might consider setting up separate bank accounts and just maintain a joint account for your shared bills and savings. This may help to prevent arguments about finances if you each have a set amount of money to spend on whatever you want each month.

6. Seek professional help. If you and your partner fight too often about finances, you can seek professional help. You may want to visit a therapist who specializes in resolving conflicts in relationships. This can help you get past any barriers and help you learn how to compromise.

You may also want to visit a financial planner. Financial planners can help you figure out how to budget and compromise on financial issues.

February 11, 2020

How to Be a Successful Business Owner

How to Be a Successful Business Owner.

Most business owners will tell you that starting a business is both one of the most challenging and most rewarding ways to earn a living. Being a successful business owner requires a large amount of hard work and dedication, but also generally relies on a set of personal qualities and business practices that are common characteristics of successful entrepreneurs. These characteristics lie as much in a business's founding principles as in its day-to-day operations and dictate every decision the entrepreneur makes. By following these guidelines, you can up your chances of founding a successful business or getting your existing business back on track.

Part 1 Finding the Right Mindset.
1. Do what you know. That is, you should start a business that focuses on what you have experience in. That experience can be either prior work experience or a personal hobby that you're ready to turn into a career. Even if a business idea seems highly profitable in theory, don't start that business unless your heart is in it. While profit is important, it likely won't keep you coming in early every day and driving growth.
For example, imagine you have experience making coffee as a barista or waiter and want to turn your passion for good coffee into a small business. You would already know a good amount about the industry and be able to apply not only your knowledge but your passion to your work.
2. Start with a well-defined purpose. While the financial benefits of business ownership can be great, most successful business owners don't start with money in mind. To get your business off the ground, you'll need a clear purpose. This purpose should be something more intangible than money, like giving back to your community by creating jobs, solving a problem that you see in your daily life, or pursuing a passion. This doesn't mean that you shouldn't also strive for profitability, just that your primary goal should be the achievement of a greater purpose.
For our coffee shop example, your purpose would be serving the perfect cup of coffee to every customer. Alternately, it could be to form a community in your coffee shop where people can meet and spend time with friends.
3. Understand your customer. Before you get started, take some time to do market research and get to know your customers and your industry. The U.S. Small Business Administration provides a great deal of information on which services and products are in demand. You will also want to think about who will be buying your product or using your service and learn the best way to appeal to this population.
With the coffee shop, ask yourself: Am I trying to appeal to "coffee snobs" who don't mind waiting five minutes for their pour-over? Or is my focus on the people who are on their way to work and want to grab a cup and run? Or both? Understanding the people you plan to serve can help you serve them better.
4. Find a first step instead of a destination. You should always start with a business model that can be up and running quickly on a low budget. Too many small businesses start with grandiose goals that will require a large amount of startup capital and investors. However, successful businesses will have a model that can be used on a smaller scale. This proves to potential investors that your idea is a valid way of making money, and increases your odds of ever getting investment money (if that's what you're looking for).
For example, imagine that in our example, you want to start a large operation that sources, imports, roasts, and packages its own coffee beans that are then either sold or served to customers at its coffee shops. Rather than seeking huge contributions from investors to buy all of this equipment, you should start with a small coffee shop first, then maybe try sourcing and importing beans, and work up from there to build a brand.
5. Create a support network. One of the most important parts of successful business ownership is getting over your own ego and seeking help. Your biggest sources of advice are going to be your group of business associates and other professionals that share your goals. Surround yourself with knowledgeable and successful people and feed off of their ideas and enthusiasm.
Also seek general small business tips online; the web is a goldmine of information. Just be sure your information is from a reliable source.
6. Find a mentor. A good mentor in this case is someone who has already run or is running a successful business of their own. A good example would be a family member or family friend that has been successful in business. This mentor can help you with anything from knowing how to manage your employees to properly filing your taxes. Because their knowledge comes from direct experience, they're able to help you more personally than any other source could.
While your mentor doesn't have to have founded the same type of business you are starting, it would help. For example, another coffee shop founder would be the best source of information in our coffee shop example, but a restaurateur  could also be of significant help.

Part 2 Running Your Business Efficiently.
1. Focus only on your primary operations at first. That is, avoid being caught up in every business opportunity that comes your way. It's better to be perfect at one thing than mediocre at five. This applies as much to making decisions to diversify your business as it does to deciding to take on additional projects for yourself outside of your primary business. Focusing on one thing will allow you to commit all of your resources there and be more productive in that endeavor.
Continuing with our example, imagine that you see another coffee shop making money by selling customized coffee-related merchandise. This may make you want to jump into this market as well. However, doing so before establishing your primary objective, making coffee, would introduce significant risk, and may detract from your ability to focus on coffee quality.
2. Focus on cash flow, not profit. While making a profit should certainly be one of your goals, it should not be your main focus when you are starting out. Cash flow is far more important — many small businesses run out of money before they have even been around long enough to generate a profit, and must close their doors. Pay careful attention to your overhead costs and sales during the first years, and let profit take a backseat.
3. Keep detailed records. In order to be successful, you'll have to make a habit of recording each and every expense and revenue that your company has, as well as every dollar that flows through it. By knowing where exactly your money is coming in and where it's going, you're more capable of recognizing financial difficulties before they arise. In addition, doing this will give you a better idea of where exactly you can make cuts to expenses or increases to revenues.
For example, in our example, you would keep detailed records of how much coffee you bought and sold in a given month and what you paid for it. This could you help you identify if, for example, the price of coffee beans was steadily increasing and help you plan whether or not to raise your own prices or consider switching suppliers.
4. Limit expenses as much as possible. While this may seem obvious, just try to think of areas where you could generate the same effect by spending less money. Consider using pre-owned equipment, finding cheaper forms of advertising (for example, fliers rather than newspaper ads), or negotiating better payment terms with suppliers or customers to save a few dollars here and there. Try to maintain very low spending habits and only spent money when and where you absolutely have to.
In our example, this could mean starting out with used coffee grinders (as long as they still functioned well) and trying to get as many supplies as possible from the same supplier (cups, lids, straws, etc.).
5. Consider supply chain efficiency. Your costs, and therefore your profits, depend on a successful supply chain organization. By fostering good relationships with your suppliers, organizing deliveries, and consistently providing customers with timely service, you can increase your profitability and reputation. Successful supply chain management can also help you eliminate any part of your business with wasted resources, like raw materials or labor.
For example, our example coffee shop would want to be on good terms with its coffee bean supplier and have an organized supply chain structure for a number of reasons. This is especially crucial for ensuring that you never run out of coffee, but could also mean that you could get more consistent deliveries, try new types of coffee bean when they become available, or negotiate lower prices.
6. Consider finding strategic partners. Much like a good mentor, a strategic partner can provide you the boost you need to grow your business. Foster strategic partnerships by reaching out to businesses you think could benefit yours, whether they are suppliers, technology providers, or complementary businesses. A good relationship with another company can provide you both free advertising, lower your costs of doing business, or allow you to expand to new markets, depending on the partners you choose.
For example, your coffee shop could benefit from a strategic relationship with a supplier that gives you access to discounts or new products. Alternately, a strategic partner in a complementary business, such as a pastry shop, could help you both reach new customers and increase your revenues. This could be done either through recommending each other or by offering product's from your partner's business and vice-versa.
7. Be responsible when it comes to debt. It's very important that you realistically assess your ability to pay back any debt that you take on. While starting and running a business is always risk, try to minimize your liabilities by only taking out as much as you absolutely need. And when you do take on debt, be sure to structure your cash flows such that you are paying it off as quickly as possible. Prioritize debt repayment before you do anything else.
For example, if you took out $20,000 to get your coffee shop started, don't think about expanding your product offerings or upgrading your coffee grinders until you've paid that loan back.

Part 3 Growing Your Business.
1. Perfect your business pitch. Have a 30-second speech ready that explains your business as briefly and efficiently as possible, including information about your purpose, your service/products, and your goals. Having a practiced pitch that you can rattle off to anyone can help you in situations where you're trying to make a sale to a customer as well as it can when you're trying to bring an investor on board. If you can't explain your business in this short time, your business plan needs refining.
For your coffee shop, you'd want to explain what you do (sell coffee), your services (the drinks you offer), what makes you special (maybe the coffee you serve is rare or locally roasted), and what you plan to do next (expand to another location, new products, etc.).
2. Earn a reputation for good service. Earning a positive reputation is like free advertising; your customers will spread the word of your business to friends and come back frequently. Treat each and every sale like the success or failure of your business depends on it. This also means that you should be consistent with every action your business takes and every interaction with customers.
For your coffee shop, this may mean throwing out a burnt batch of coffee so that your customers are always served the absolutely best product you can offer.
3. Watch your competition closely. You should always look to your competitors for ideas, especially when you're starting out. Chances are, they're doing something right. If you can figure out what that is, you can implement it in your own business and avoid the trial-and-error they probably went through to get there.
One of the best ways to do this when you're starting out is to examine your competitors' pricing strategies. In our coffee shop example, it would be much simpler to price your coffee similarly to competitors rather than to experiment with different prices on your own.
4. Always be looking for growth opportunities. Once you've gotten established, you should always be on the lookout for places you can expand. Whether that means moving to a larger storefront, increasing manufacturing space, or opening a new location will depend on your business and goals. Successful business owners realize that one of the primary opponents to long-term growth is remaining stagnant. This means taking the risk of expansion rather than resting on your laurels at one, original location.
For our coffee example, maybe there is a nearby area that you find is underserved by coffee shops. Once your primary location is up and running smoothly, you should investigate opening a new shop in that area. This could also mean moving up from a small stand to a full coffee shop, depending on your circumstances.
5. Diversify your income streams. Another way to increase the value of your business is by seeking out other areas where you can make money. Assuming you've already established your primary business, look around and see where you could offer a different service or product. Maybe your customers frequently visit your store for one item and then immediately go to another store for a different item. Find out what that other item is and offer it.
Some easy diversification options for your coffee shop would be offering pastries, sandwiches, or books for purchase.

Community Q&A.

Question : How can I be successful in business generally?
Answer : Read a lot of books on business management and take all the information you can take. Then try to apply it practically. This article may be of use to you: how to become a successful businessman.
Question : How do I make myself CEO of my business?
Answer : If you start a business as a corporation, you (as the founder) can give yourself the responsibilities and title of CEO.

Tips.

Be prepared with 6 months worth of working capital in your business.
This article serves primarily as a guide for the business owner in getting the most out of their business. For more detailed guides that cover the minute details of starting a business, see how to start a small business and how to run a small business.
Pay all insurances up for the year, (I.e., liability, etc.) as soon as possible.

Warnings.
You can lose money if you are personally invested in your company.

June 04, 2020

How to Ask Rich People for Money

How to Ask Rich People for Money.

Fundraising for charity is an important part of any nonprofit group's work. In the U.S. alone, donors gave almost $287 billion in 2011. Many people who work for nonprofits feel uncomfortable asking donors for money, but without their help most nonprofit groups would not be able to carry out their missions. Learning how to effectively and respectfully ask wealthy individuals for money can help you ensure your charity or favorite nonprofit, federally recognized as 501 (c) (3), group prospers and is able to help those in need.

Part 1 Planning Your Donation Request
1. Compile a list of donors. Before you begin asking for money, it's best to have an idea of who you're going to ask for donations. If you're going door-to-door, that may be as simple as deciding which neighborhood(s) to work in. If you're soliciting donations by phone or by mail, though, you'll need a list of prospective donors to contact.
If you can identify past donors on your list of people to call or write to, you may want to prioritize those individuals as "best bets" - these are people who, given their history of donating in the past, will most likely contribute again to your cause.
Try to identify which people on your list are the most financially stable. You can do this by interacting with the individual to get a sense of his or her finances, or if going door-to-door, look at the houses residents live in and the cars in their driveways. People with large, elaborate homes or flashy sports cars most likely have more disposable income. (Though of course this doesn't guarantee that they will give donations.)
You can also look for potential donors by their other areas of spending. For example, does the prospective donor attend fundraisers for other organizations or individuals? If so, that prospective donor probably has the means to donate to your organization, if properly persuaded.
Consider using analytical software and services, such as Donor Search, to identify which potential donors are more wealthy and more likely to donate.
Remember to think "ABC" when identifying donors: Able to make a gift, Belief (known or potential) in your cause, and Contact/Connection with your organization.
2. Get to know your donors. If your organization has dealt with donors in the past, you or a colleague will probably know what strategies work best in making your appeal. Some people want to know how the money from last year was spent, while others may simply want to know how much is needed. Certain donors may have fears or reservations about donating, and it's important to learn to recognize those fears/reservations so you can address them in advance.
Some donors may need to hear particular terms or phrases in order to be persuaded to donate. If you know this to be the case, make some indication of this on your list so that when you call or approach that person, you'll know what to say.
Any time a donor seems reluctant to give but gives anyway, make a note of that situation on your list or in that donor's file (if you have one). Listen to what the individual says when he or she is reluctant, and try to find ways to assuage those fears - not just for this year's fundraiser, but for future years as well.
Be aware that many well-known philanthropists hire other individuals to manage donations and contributions. Because of this, you may not get to speak to the actual donor himself/herself. However, the employees hired by a philanthropist probably have the same concerns that the philanthropist does, and you may have some luck appealing to the philanthropist's interests through his or her employees.
3. Find ways to present your organization. People who have donated to your organization will no doubt be familiar with who you are (as an organization) and what you do. But what about people who have never donated before? How will you describe what you do to an outsider? This is important, as it may determine whether the individual will listen to the rest of your pitch. If possible, try to compile some data on what your organization has done in the past, the problems you hope to address after this fundraising drive, and how that prospective donation would help your cause.
Try to present your organization in a way that both explains what you do while also highlighting the issue you seek to change. For example, you might say something like, "Did you know that [the issue your organization addresses] affects a significant portion of the city, and we are the only organization solely committed to addressing these issues in a comprehensive way?"
It's not a requirement to have data compiled, but for individuals who aren't familiar with your organization, it may be very helpful to know that information.
Consider printing out a brochure or having a reusable chart to illustrate both the improvements you've made and the improvements you hope to make.
Think about what you might say if someone doesn't understand your organization's goals, or what you might say if someone was dismissive of your organization. Try putting yourself in those shoes - imagining that you were someone who didn't want to help the organization - and what you might say to the organization. Then imagine how you might respond to hearing those words.
The better your donor base understands your organization - and the better you understand your donors - the more likely you'll be to build a long-term relationship with that donor.
4. Practice your appeal. One of the best things you can do to strengthen your appeal for donations is to practice what you're going to say. That doesn't just mean knowing how to actually ask for money, but also knowing how to initiate the conversation, practicing scenarios, anticipating potential responses, and knowing how to direct (or re-direct) the conversation.
Remember that the best appeal will educate the potential donor, rather than making a simple sales pitch.
Practice your appeal out loud. Get comfortable with the speech, and learn to adapt it to your own style of speaking. Make it your own speech, and try to make it feel comfortable and unrehearsed (even though this may take a lot of rehearsal).
Practice in front of a mirror if you will be interacting with donors face-to-face.
Try recording yourself, either with a tape recorder or on video, and study your mannerisms and your speech patterns. Does it sound honest? Do your vocal patterns and your physical mannerisms communicate the message of your organization, and the urgency of what you're trying to solve?

Part 2 Asking for Donations.
1. Start a conversation. Don't just call and start running in with your pitch. Work on creating a dialogue with the potential donor, which may mean making some polite small talk at the start. It can be as simple as asking the person how his or her day is going. Anything to start a conversation should help disarm the individual, and make the person realize that you're a caring and concerned member of the community.
If the prospective donor is a known philanthropist, he or she may prefer to have someone who heads the foundation ask for a donation. Statistically, donors are more likely to give money to a recognizable figure affiliated with an organization, rather than to a fundraiser who contacts them on the organization's behalf.
Initiate the conversation by getting the prospective donor to acknowledge an existing problem. If you're raising money for a local organization, you might open the conversation by asking what he or she thinks is the greatest crisis facing your region.
2. Make your intentions known. You shouldn't just introduce yourself by asking for money, but you should make your intentions known near the end of your small talk. Start by asking how the person is doing, or commenting on the weather, and then use that as a lead-in to say, "I'm working with _______, and we're trying to help _______ be able to ________."
If the individual feels like you're just having an aimless conversation and then suddenly he or she is asked for money, it may create tension and cause the person to feel like you're shaking them down. Be calm, friendly, and casual, but don't drag your feet about making it clear that you have a purpose.
3. Let the other person speak. Chances are, if you launch into your usual appeal to a person on the street who's never donated before, that person will walk away. But if you have created a dialogue, and made room for the other person to speak, you may be able to get that individual to feel engaged and a part of the solution.
Try asking a Question : . Say something like, "What do you think is the biggest problem our community faces?" Once the person has answered, instead of simply saying, "Yes, you're right. Will you consider donating?" try a more nuanced approach. After the person says what he or she sees as the problem, just say, "How interesting!" and keep silent while remaining interested.
People fear silence, and the person will probably fill that gap by elaborating on why that issue is important. That potential donor may go on to talk about how a family member has been affected by those issues. This gives you an in to take the specific concern he/she has and run with it. It's no longer an abstract concern, but a specific problem that may have affected the individual personally.
4. Make a specific request. If you leave a donation appeal open-ended, the person may not end up donating, or may only give a few dollars. But if you ask for a specific amount, it takes a lot of guess work out of the equation for that individual, and makes it easier to commit to your request. For example, if the person seems interested, say something like, "Well, we can make a difference. For just _____ dollars, you can help accomplish ___________."
Another way to ask for a specific amount is to put the ball in their court. Ask something like, "Would you consider a gift of _____?" or "Is ______ something you'd be willing to consider to help tackle the problem of __________?"
5. Be persistent. Many people will say no right off the bat, but others may simply need to be persuaded a bit more. Perhaps someone might say that the amount you requested is too high. If that happens, let the person know that any donation amount would be a big help, and ask if there's a slightly lower amount that the person would be willing/able to donate.
Don't be aggressive with your appeal, but do be insistent that your cause is worthy and that any donation amount would help that cause.
6. Thank the person either way. If the individual is willing to donate, then it's cause for celebration. You can thank the person and let him or her know that that donation will go a long way towards solving or addressing the issue at hand. But even if the person is not interested in donating, you should still be polite and appreciative of their time. Simply say, "Well, thank you for your time and have a wonderful day."
Expressing gratitude and courtesy can go a long way. Just because someone isn't interested in donating, that doesn't mean the situation won't change. Perhaps next year the people who said no will have heard or read more about your organization, or perhaps the individual will have been personally affected by the issue you're seeking to address. Making a good impression now, even when turned down, may be what helps you get a donation next year.
7. Follow up with donors. If someone gave a donation, you should absolutely express gratitude. Send the donor a thank-you letter and a gift receipt (in case they want to write it off on their taxes or simply have a record of the donation). It's best to send these items as quickly as possible so that the donor knows that the contribution was greatly appreciated and will be put to good use.

Community Q&A.

Question : How do I ask a rich person for 50,000 dollars?
Answer : Follow the instructions listed in the article above. However, they will likely say no.
Question : How can I get money if I need it urgently?
Answer : Get a job, start a blog, make something, or ask for a small loan.
Question : How can I get help with my power bills and the foreclosure on my house?
Answer : There are probably social services nearby that can help.
Question : How can I raise money for my wedding?
Answer : Ask friends and family members if they are willing to pitch in some money to help fund your marriage. In return, send them invitations.
Question : How can I find money for my daughter's marriage?
Answer : Loans, relatives, friends, or you could try planning a wedding that won't cost you much!
Question : Where can you apply for a small business loan with bad credit?
Answer : You can try becoming a member of a credit union and try for a loan there.
Question : How do I ask for money if I am about to be homeless with an autistic son?
Answer : Ask family and friends, and tell them your situation. Look for government programs that can help, and depending on the age of your son, you may be able to get financial help for him. You can also ask family and friends if the two of you can stay with them while you get back on your feet. That way, you have an address while you look for a job.
Question : I need a loan to deal with a parent's sickness, what can I do?
Answer : Loans are not the only solution to sickness, there are organizations that provide affordable medical care. Search for these in your area. You might also consider launching a donation campaign through Kickstarter or another fundraising website.
Question : How can someone fund me to help me spread the word of God?
Answer : Try doing a simple fundraiser, like a lemonade stand or a car wash.

Tips.

Many people are more motivated to help you with money if they sympathize with your goals or interests. Try to tailor your appeal to each individual donor, based on how that donor seems to respond to the issues you address.
Always send a thank-you note to your donors, regardless of how much they sent you.

July 02, 2020

how to organize your personal year end finances

How to Organize Your Personal Year End Finances.

You should never organize your year-end finances all at once. Rather, you should be engaged in a steady process of organizing and reorganizing your financial documents and information throughout the year. The process you use when organizing at the end of the year will be basically the same process you use monthly or quarterly to evaluate your investments, insurance, and budget. Use the year-end financial organizational process to get the opinion of a financial planner to help you streamline your finances, identify areas of waste, and take corrective actions to save money.

Method 1 Getting Organized.

1. Select your organizational categories. Knowing how to organize your financial documents can be tough. Thinking broadly about the sorts of documents you ought to organize for your year-end finances will help the process move along smoothly. Some documents might need to be copied and placed in multiple locations. For instance, education loan payments might need to be in a “loans” folder and also a “taxes” folder. Depending on what sort of financial documents you have, you may or may not need folders devoted to each of the main financial categories, which include.

Financial management (bank statements and loan records).

Insurance and annuity documents (policies and statements).

Estate documents (wills, trusts, and powers of attorney).

Investments (stocks and bond).

Income tax information (tax returns and documents attesting to charitable giving).

Employment and military records (discharge papers and employee benefits).

Home records (appraisals, renovation receipts).

Medical documents (summaries of recent appointments and any medical bills or payments made).

Legal documents (passports, personal records, and real estate settlements).

2. Use the same organizational system for all your documents. You probably receive and pay some bills through regular mail, and some through digital outlets or automatic account debiting. In this case, it's important to impose a parallel structure on your analog and digital documents alike.

For instance, if you organize your vertical files containing utility bills, credit card bills, and other significant financial documents in order that they were received, you should not organize your digital files into folders containing payments, bills, and receipts according to the company or institution that you made the payments to.

3. Know what to keep. Retain anything tax-related for at least three years. Keep anything that demonstrates a financial loss for seven years. For instance, you ought to keep a bill of sale on a property that sold for less than what you paid for it. You should also retain receipts for transactions paid by credit card until you get the credit card bill that reflects them. Finally, keep all monthly account statements until you get the year-end reconciliation statement.

Conversely, you should know what to get rid of.When new insurance policies arrive, get rid of the old ones.

Err on the side of caution when disposing of financial documents. If you're unsure if you need to keep something, retain it.

For more in-depth guidelines on what you should pitch and keep, consult IRS Publication 17.

4. Use an app or website to help you organize. There are a variety of handy apps to help get your year-end finances organized. For instance, you might check out feedthepig.com, manilla.com, or mint.com.Apps that might help include Mint, Personal Capital, and Spending Tracker.

Method 2 Looking Ahead.

1. Set a budget. Find ways to save next year. Use your year-end financial organization time to identify sources that are draining your money. For instance, if you're paying for cable TV but never watch it, think about cancelling it altogether.

Overall, you should be spending about 35% of your income on home expenses (rent, utilities, and groceries), 15% on transportation expenses (car insurance, train fare, and auto repairs), 25% on entertainment and other miscellaneous expenses, 15% on paying off debt, and putting the final 10% of your income toward savings.

If you live in an expensive area or have a low income, you might need to contribute more money to home expenses and less toward debt or miscellaneous expenditures.

2. Simplify payments and financial data for next year. When you're done organizing your current year's financial data and documentation, look for ways to streamline the process next year. For instance, you can cut back on time spent searching for wayward documents by using automatic bill payments. You might also use debiting by tying regular payments like utilities and credit card charges directly to your bank account.

Cut back on the number of credit cards you use regularly. This will reduce the number of credit card bills you need to juggle. Use the credit card with the lowest interest rate as your day-to-day credit card, and use the other cards once a month in order to prevent their disuse from hurting your credit score.

For the same reason, limit your bank accounts. You should have one checking account and one savings account. If you have multiple checking and savings accounts, close the one with the most fees and least generous terms of service.

Consolidate your retirement accounts and investments, too. If you have several IRAs, transfer all the money into a single IRA. Use one brokerage firm to simplify investments.

3. Keep your finances organized throughout the year. Instead of putting all your receipts, account statements, and other financial documents in a stack and watching them slowly pile up over the course of a year, put them in the appropriate file or folder as you receive them. This will prevent confusion when trying to organize everything at year's end.

Use a three-ring binder with pockets to organize your financial materials in an orderly way. Move non-current financial records to your filing cabinet.

If you feel more comfortable printing out digital documents, print them out and put them in your vertical file or binder.

If you don't print out digital receipts and other documents, ensure that you put them in the appropriate folder according to your predesignated system as you receive them. For instance, when you get your digital W-2, immediately download it and put it with your other tax documents.

If you need to copy certain digital documents to make them accessible in multiple locations, don't be afraid to do so.

Method 3 Evaluating Your Financial Health.

1. Consult a financial planner or accountant. With the help of a certified financial planner or accountant, you'll be able to get your year-end finances under control. They can help you find ways to save when you file taxes in the coming months, and can explain some of the nuances of the tax code. For instance, you might want to ask.

Should I accelerate or defer income?

What losses or gains should I take this year?

Should I convert my traditional IRA to a Roth IRA so that my earnings will grow tax-free?

Are there any charitable donations I should make?

2. Total your year-to-date spending. You should have a column with all the payments, investments, and savings you have at the end of the year. Compare these numbers to their counterparts at the beginning of the year to get an overall sense of your financial health.

Your investment value should be greater at the end of the year than it was at the beginning of the year.

Your savings should be higher at the end of the year than it was at the beginning of the year.

Your spending should be less than the value of your savings.

3. Review your credit reports. Each year, you are entitled to three free credit reports, one each from the three major credit agencies (Experian, Equifax, and TransUnion). These reports will let you know if your credit score is good or if it needs a boost.

The best way to check your credit reports is not to check all three at once, but rather to space them out regularly over time. Ideally, you'd check one every four months.

4. Check your portfolio. Read the latest reports from your stock broker or financial planner to determine the relative health of your investments. If your portfolio is not doing well, think about investing elsewhere. Talk to a certified financial planner or stockbroker for advice about how to develop a robust portfolio.

Method  4 Finding Ways to Save.

1. Analyze your insurance coverage. If you have home, life, auto, or other insurance, contact some agents representing insurers in your area to find out if you have the best coverage you can afford. If you've made improvements to your home over the past year, you may have increased the value of your home, and that value should be reflected in your insurance policy.

Likewise, if you've welcomed a new family member into your family over the past year, you must check with your insurance provider to guarantee that they're covered under your insurance.

2. Review your tax data. Working with a tax professional, find ways to reduce your tax burden before the year is out. Charitable giving is the easiest way to do this. Look for reputable charities whose work you believe in through GuideStar (http://www.guidestar.org), CharityWatch (https://www.charitywatch.org/home) and Charity Navigator (http://www.charitynavigator.org).

You can also make in-kind (material) donations to thrift stores like the Salvation Army in exchange for a tax discount.

You can also qualify for tax deductions based on work-related expenses like travel or items of clothing you bought specifically for work.

3. Update your information where necessary. If you've had a change in your marital status you may need to revise your tax withholding and/or employee health coverage. If you're unsure if you need to update this information, contact a financial planner for assistance.

4. Empty your flexible spending account. A flexible spending account for healthcare should be used to cover outstanding claims from your doctor, dentist, or other health provider. If you have a flexible spending account oriented toward other types of spending like dependent care, employ the account to cover the appropriate expenses before the year is out.

Only $500 of a flexible spending account can carry over into the following year, so it's important to take full advantage of the account before the year ends.

January 22, 2020

How to Organize Your Personal Year End Finances

How to Organize Your Personal Year End Finances.

You should never organize your year-end finances all at once. Rather, you should be engaged in a steady process of organizing and reorganizing your financial documents and information throughout the year. The process you use when organizing at the end of the year will be basically the same process you use monthly or quarterly to evaluate your investments, insurance, and budget. Use the year-end financial organizational process to get the opinion of a financial planner to help you streamline your finances, identify areas of waste, and take corrective actions to save money.

Method 1 Getting Organized.

1. Select your organizational categories. Knowing how to organize your financial documents can be tough. Thinking broadly about the sorts of documents you ought to organize for your year-end finances will help the process move along smoothly. Some documents might need to be copied and placed in multiple locations. For instance, education loan payments might need to be in a “loans” folder and also a “taxes” folder. Depending on what sort of financial documents you have, you may or may not need folders devoted to each of the main financial categories, which include.

Financial management (bank statements and loan records).

Insurance and annuity documents (policies and statements).

Estate documents (wills, trusts, and powers of attorney).

Investments (stocks and bond).

Income tax information (tax returns and documents attesting to charitable giving).

Employment and military records (discharge papers and employee benefits).

Home records (appraisals, renovation receipts).

Medical documents (summaries of recent appointments and any medical bills or payments made).

Legal documents (passports, personal records, and real estate settlements).

2. Use the same organizational system for all your documents. You probably receive and pay some bills through regular mail, and some through digital outlets or automatic account debiting. In this case, it's important to impose a parallel structure on your analog and digital documents alike.

For instance, if you organize your vertical files containing utility bills, credit card bills, and other significant financial documents in order that they were received, you should not organize your digital files into folders containing payments, bills, and receipts according to the company or institution that you made the payments to.

3. Know what to keep. Retain anything tax-related for at least three years. Keep anything that demonstrates a financial loss for seven years. For instance, you ought to keep a bill of sale on a property that sold for less than what you paid for it. You should also retain receipts for transactions paid by credit card until you get the credit card bill that reflects them. Finally, keep all monthly account statements until you get the year-end reconciliation statement.

Conversely, you should know what to get rid of.When new insurance policies arrive, get rid of the old ones.

Err on the side of caution when disposing of financial documents. If you're unsure if you need to keep something, retain it.

For more in-depth guidelines on what you should pitch and keep, consult IRS Publication 17.

4. Use an app or website to help you organize. There are a variety of handy apps to help get your year-end finances organized. For instance, you might check out feedthepig.com, manilla.com, or mint.com.Apps that might help include Mint, Personal Capital, and Spending Tracker.

Method 2 Looking Ahead.

1. Set a budget. Find ways to save next year. Use your year-end financial organization time to identify sources that are draining your money. For instance, if you're paying for cable TV but never watch it, think about cancelling it altogether.

Overall, you should be spending about 35% of your income on home expenses (rent, utilities, and groceries), 15% on transportation expenses (car insurance, train fare, and auto repairs), 25% on entertainment and other miscellaneous expenses, 15% on paying off debt, and putting the final 10% of your income toward savings.

If you live in an expensive area or have a low income, you might need to contribute more money to home expenses and less toward debt or miscellaneous expenditures.

2. Simplify payments and financial data for next year. When you're done organizing your current year's financial data and documentation, look for ways to streamline the process next year. For instance, you can cut back on time spent searching for wayward documents by using automatic bill payments. You might also use debiting by tying regular payments like utilities and credit card charges directly to your bank account.

Cut back on the number of credit cards you use regularly. This will reduce the number of credit card bills you need to juggle. Use the credit card with the lowest interest rate as your day-to-day credit card, and use the other cards once a month in order to prevent their disuse from hurting your credit score.

For the same reason, limit your bank accounts. You should have one checking account and one savings account. If you have multiple checking and savings accounts, close the one with the most fees and least generous terms of service.

Consolidate your retirement accounts and investments, too. If you have several IRAs, transfer all the money into a single IRA. Use one brokerage firm to simplify investments.

3. Keep your finances organized throughout the year. Instead of putting all your receipts, account statements, and other financial documents in a stack and watching them slowly pile up over the course of a year, put them in the appropriate file or folder as you receive them. This will prevent confusion when trying to organize everything at year's end.

Use a three-ring binder with pockets to organize your financial materials in an orderly way. Move non-current financial records to your filing cabinet.

If you feel more comfortable printing out digital documents, print them out and put them in your vertical file or binder.

If you don't print out digital receipts and other documents, ensure that you put them in the appropriate folder according to your predesignated system as you receive them. For instance, when you get your digital W-2, immediately download it and put it with your other tax documents.

If you need to copy certain digital documents to make them accessible in multiple locations, don't be afraid to do so.

Method 3 Evaluating Your Financial Health.

1. Consult a financial planner or accountant. With the help of a certified financial planner or accountant, you'll be able to get your year-end finances under control. They can help you find ways to save when you file taxes in the coming months, and can explain some of the nuances of the tax code. For instance, you might want to ask.

Should I accelerate or defer income?

What losses or gains should I take this year?

Should I convert my traditional IRA to a Roth IRA so that my earnings will grow tax-free?

Are there any charitable donations I should make?

2. Total your year-to-date spending. You should have a column with all the payments, investments, and savings you have at the end of the year. Compare these numbers to their counterparts at the beginning of the year to get an overall sense of your financial health.

Your investment value should be greater at the end of the year than it was at the beginning of the year.

Your savings should be higher at the end of the year than it was at the beginning of the year.

Your spending should be less than the value of your savings.

3. Review your credit reports. Each year, you are entitled to three free credit reports, one each from the three major credit agencies (Experian, Equifax, and TransUnion). These reports will let you know if your credit score is good or if it needs a boost.

The best way to check your credit reports is not to check all three at once, but rather to space them out regularly over time. Ideally, you'd check one every four months.

4. Check your portfolio. Read the latest reports from your stock broker or financial planner to determine the relative health of your investments. If your portfolio is not doing well, think about investing elsewhere. Talk to a certified financial planner or stockbroker for advice about how to develop a robust portfolio.

Method  4 Finding Ways to Save.

1. Analyze your insurance coverage. If you have home, life, auto, or other insurance, contact some agents representing insurers in your area to find out if you have the best coverage you can afford. If you've made improvements to your home over the past year, you may have increased the value of your home, and that value should be reflected in your insurance policy.

Likewise, if you've welcomed a new family member into your family over the past year, you must check with your insurance provider to guarantee that they're covered under your insurance.

2. Review your tax data. Working with a tax professional, find ways to reduce your tax burden before the year is out. Charitable giving is the easiest way to do this. Look for reputable charities whose work you believe in through GuideStar (http://www.guidestar.org), CharityWatch (https://www.charitywatch.org/home) and Charity Navigator (http://www.charitynavigator.org).

You can also make in-kind (material) donations to thrift stores like the Salvation Army in exchange for a tax discount.

You can also qualify for tax deductions based on work-related expenses like travel or items of clothing you bought specifically for work.

3. Update your information where necessary. If you've had a change in your marital status you may need to revise your tax withholding and/or employee health coverage. If you're unsure if you need to update this information, contact a financial planner for assistance.

4. Empty your flexible spending account. A flexible spending account for healthcare should be used to cover outstanding claims from your doctor, dentist, or other health provider. If you have a flexible spending account oriented toward other types of spending like dependent care, employ the account to cover the appropriate expenses before the year is out.

Only $500 of a flexible spending account can carry over into the following year, so it's important to take full advantage of the account before the year ends.

January 22, 2020